How long should I wait to tell him, i'm a virgin?
I am 25 and a virgin, I have told guys in the past early on that this was the case and honestly I think it scaried them because its not something most people would think based on who I am.
I am just starting out with a guy who is older then me and I know has been in sexual realationships, I am fairly sure he has no idea i'm a virgin. should I tell him earlier, later or just when and if it comes up?
2007-04-16 17:51:11 · 6 answers · asked by horsedance5 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I would tell him sooner than later. Because of the fact that maybe he wouldn't like that fact coming out at the wrong moment(bed)And maybe you would not also. It is very good that you are a virgin keep it that way till you are married so you can find someone that shares the same values you do.
2007-04-16 17:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by evil_kitty_1976 1 · 15⤊ 0⤋
I would much prefer this early on. At different stages in my life I have stopped dating girls who were virgins because I wasn't looking for a serious relationship and I didn't want to be the guy to take it and then leave. If you are waiting for marriage it would suit you best to find a guy with similar values or who is willing to wait. He may be that guy but it is always better for him to be able to tell you that sooner rather than later.
2007-04-17 01:02:23 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisfun 4 · 19⤊ 3⤋
By the time it is his business, he WILL know....
I appreciate the other commenters (like LifeisFun) but still have to disagree with their POV.
If you have waited until you are 25, clearly your virginity means something to you, and hopefully you are dating somebody to whom life offers more than just "fun."
2007-04-19 10:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 20⤊ 1⤋
maybe you dont need to tell him like right this second but when it comes up you should or if your relationship gets more serious physically that might be leading up to sex, then you should let him know.
2007-04-17 00:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by its me 2 · 14⤊ 1⤋
When it comes up!! It doesnt matter if you are a virgin...he should love you for you. But whatever makes you feel comfortable.
2007-04-17 00:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by The BecaNATOR 5 · 25⤊ 4⤋
Wait till your wedding night cause if it doesnt make it that far its probably not worth it.
2007-04-19 14:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 21⤊ 7⤋