I just went on a date and when the guy asked if I wanted kids, I said yes, because I do want them. Then he asked if I could have them, and I felt kinda funny and said "I don't see why not" with a strange look on my face. I told him that I've never tried to have them before, so I don't know, nor have I ever asked my doctor if I CAN'T have them? I am still young and healthy. Mind you, he was married before and she couldn't have kids, but this is our first date...what a weirdo!
Anyone ever been cornered like this? Got a better response? And NO WAY am I going out with him again, he was weird and cheap.
2007-04-16 17:45:29 · 10 answers · asked by Runnin for my life '73 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Great responses people! You're right, he shouldn't be allowed out to date!
His vibe was definately off, and this question and how he asked it sat funny with me.
Thank you for ending my horrible night with a smile and me laughing out loud.
Wishing you better dates!
2007-04-16 18:27:02 · update #1
OK, now that I am done laughing at the horrible date you had, poor girl...I to have been interrogated like that. its amazing how they can ask dumb questions and expect a detailed response and not remember the color of our eyes. I think this guy needs help for one. and two whoever set you up with him owes you something big- if you found him on your own- girl you need to start fishin in a better pond, the one he came from has pollutants causing serious side effects. Better luck next time!
Better response: Actually ,I am pregnant right now...not too sure who the father is, it could be Rico...maybe Jakob, or the guy from the bar the other night...dang what was his name? oh you know how tricky these thigns can be.....
2007-04-16 17:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by wherewasgodforthelost 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This was not a first date it was an interview for his second wife. No wonder he is divorced. He has a me complex. It was highly inappropriate on how he treated you. It reminds me of a date when he asked what was the biggest man I ever went out with. You know the biggest man? I said about 6'5" no the biggest man? In the inch department. Good thing I was quick to answer.... Women have problems with directions, measurements, and distance...because they are told this is six inches (........................). I got up and poured my drink over his head and told him to cool off before he could respond I was out the door.
2007-04-24 14:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by flateach33 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, real weird! Get away from this guy, gives me bad vibes. Ever happens again, tell the man that you consider the question way to personal for a first date, end of subject.
Makes me wonder, if he is married and just looking for safe sex that won't come back to haunt him. or ...worse yet, the fantasies of a stalker.
2007-04-16 17:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by lorianne 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Strange, sounds like he has major baggage. Good choice in never going out with him again, that's just not an appropriate question to ask someone on a 1st date. RED FLAG indeed!
2007-04-16 17:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kaylin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ha! You got a hold of a "Breeder" who is looking for some good stock to mate with. Talk about crass? I think social skills needs to enter his gene pool before he makes kids.
2007-04-16 17:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by whrldpz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That was a bit presumptuous of him. Hopefully he figures it out and doesn't make that mistake again.
As for a response: Well, I have reached menarche and bleed every month. Would you like a sample?
2007-04-16 17:53:09 · answer #6 · answered by Vegan 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I think I would have come down with a really bad headache at that point. It would be so bad I would have to go home immediately. This guy is just plain weird.
2007-04-16 17:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No that i'm asserting i would not, even though it basically feels bizarre..(sorry) yet might you want the guy to be taller, comparable as for the adult adult males I propose, would not they want the girl to be particularly shorter than them? i ought to date somebody shorter than me even however his character is what i detect nicer than his seems or top is particularly no longer my type. wish I helped!
2016-10-22 09:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thin he wants kids so yeah he got right to the poimt
2007-04-24 17:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Juliett 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is an odd first date question.....smart girl by not going out with him again!
2007-04-16 17:48:22 · answer #10 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋