how do you handle a just friends relationship with a guy?

Question

I became friends with a guy one line a few months ago. we hit it off reakky well. we were both attracted to oneanother and agreed to be friends with benifits. In that way we were compatible. We agreed that if any of our feelings changed we would automatically tell one another. However it was never made clear that if it would be toward each other or someone else. As time went on i would get mixed messages from him. Messages from i want more, this is growing then, messages from remember we are only friends. He is older and somewhat more mature. I like him alot and i want more. I dont know if i should tell him. althiugh i dont think that i have too my willingness probably tells it all. I think about him and cant wait to see him once a week. I try not to show my excitement in fear of running him away. Im getting weak. I wonder if seeing other people would help me. Its hard to think of someone else when all i do is tink of him. Please help me figure this out.

Answer 1

If you like him that much just tell him. You did agree to do it...right.