ok, so ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and ive been wanting to kiss him. he told his friend that he didnt wanna kiss me cuz im older than him ((but i kno hes lying about that)) he hasnt had his 1st kiss and he gets kinda shy when hes around me. im gonna see him saturday and im thinking about kissing him then...............should i?
2007-04-16 13:54:32 · 17 answers · asked by *~kirsti~* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 14 and hes 13, but im only 4 months older
2007-04-16 14:01:43 · update #1
I think that you should make the first move. start slowly and dont be too agressive and force him into something he isn't comfortable with
either that or talk to him about it and decide when its going to happen
2007-04-16 14:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by Kali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As temptiing as it may be, you might want to hold off. He might not be ready for what comes after the kissing. If you enjoy being with him then enjoy it. Let him make his move when he is ready. Then you won't make him feel akward and uneasy about being with you. When the time is right it will happen. The longer you hold out the longer the relationship will last. Once you've become intimate with someone, there isn't much more to offer and then what? Better to save that for a person who is willing to spend the rest of their lives committed to just you - like a husband.
2007-04-16 21:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? how old is he?
im just wondering because you have to be awfully young to go 3 months without kissing....
ok 14 and 13...wow its hard to say...the thing is, at that age, guys are much more immature than girls...it might only be a few months difference, but in terms of maturity levels, youre probably a few years above him. i would say, go for it...hes probably just too scared...and if he backs away, then you know he's too young and immature for a girl right now.
2007-04-16 20:58:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im the same age and I had a bf just like that , i called it quits because guys are immiture natuarlly so going out with a younger boy was like torture even if there is only 4 months difference
2007-04-16 21:04:24 · answer #4 · answered by chizee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes a shy guy and never had one. It dont matter go make ur first move. I remember myself too that it wasnt me who made the first move for the kiss but in the end it came out good. So yeh go make the first move, you cant wait forever for this guy to try and kiss you
2007-04-16 20:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Jackie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. I think you should know each other well enough to talk. Tell him you really want to kiss him, and just do it very softly. Who knows? You might just end up making out. You know he's been dreaming about that!! Good Luck!
2007-04-16 21:05:30 · answer #6 · answered by LadyLynn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Wouldn't You?!!! Just Do It. I Like It When My Lady Surprises Me With Things Like That From Time To Time. What The Worst That Could Happen?!?! I Say Do It!!
2007-04-16 20:59:03 · answer #7 · answered by Aztec Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally, if you don't put any pressure on him. He may stop you though, telling you that he aint ready.... but lol... I would if a girl wanted to kiss me. ( I haven't gotten my first either.).
O, and it depends how much older, 1 year... ok.... more than 2 no
2007-04-16 20:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jimy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is shy u deffinatly need to make the first move. My first kiss with another woman not named mom camed when she made the first move.
2007-04-16 21:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lakers24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should some guys are really shy and just dont want to they will but i think they would like to be kised by the one they loved and he wont say "wth are you doing" cuz hes your boy friend so just go for it.
2007-04-16 20:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋