this guy for 7 months and we have had some problems down the road like he always suggest we take a break or break up bacause of his grades or because he thinks we're going down the wrong path or we're to physical or to emotional. about three weeks ago he was having problems and suggested we break up because of his grades but then he was like i don't know maybe not then one day he comes up to me and is like " i was serious what i said about spring break." i was like'what are you talking about you never said anything about it." then he was like" about how you can go smoke, get drunk, or laid and i don't care as long as you tell me." and i was like " why would you even tell me that." i mean he wasn't testing me he said "i don't know thats just how i feel." then left and so i get a note that night saying disreguard everything he said then we worked it out. but then i cheated over break and i like this boy and now have mixed feelings about my boyfriend. but he dont seem to get we have probs
2007-04-16 13:50:35 · 5 answers · asked by ~so confused~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok so i got something new and also i got something i didnt metion ...?
my boyfriend does care more than wat he ever did which is wat i found out but my feelings for him a low real low there not mixed feelings they jus are lower than his alittle but i do still love him and if i did choose the other guy it might not be good cuz hes older and hes long distance but still now give me ur opinion ...is it the same or ......
2007-04-16 13:51:44 · update #1
1. You cheated
2. Wooooooooooooooooooow
3. please break up with them both
2007-04-16 13:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by J-Rome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both you and your boyfriend seem very confused. It may be time for the two of you to take a break. He is also having mixed feelings about the situation, as you mentioned you have. Better to take a break now before the feelings get to strong. Any time a man says he doesn't mind if you go out and do all of that, he is probably doing the same thing or worse. You have already mentioned that you cheated. All of this shows that there is attachment, but not love involved. Let go so that you can each find the right person. There is no use holding on to something that is barely even there. You will enjoy your summer a lot better too!
2007-04-17 00:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn 1st thing you need to do is to stop being so Loose! Have a little respect for yourself,geezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, humping somebody on spring break,nasty.now you need to be by yourself, you need time to learn how to be a "real" women! key word here "real" stop wanting nothing but sex!, I'de say from the long story you wrote,your not all that anyway! now get to stepping! and be Somebody!
2007-04-16 21:01:03 · answer #3 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u and ur bf friend have some issues to work out,it dosent sound like ur really into the relationship if u went out and cheated on him,thats being a hoooe.. u might try just dating and not getting into a bf/gf scene for awhile..
2007-04-16 21:02:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the one you love the most..then say to the other one it might not work out right and say sorry after..
2007-04-16 20:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋