His name is Chris and it's my favorite cousins BFF we were flirting a lot the last time I saw him and he likes me A LOT!!!! I really like him and want to go out with him but this would be my first boyfriend and weird for me to go out with my cousins BFF and he doesnt go to the same skool as me and we will only see each other at my cousins house and call each other on the phone I know I'm pretty and stuff but everyone at his skool likes him and if I dont know whats going on I willl be so depressed and I dont see why he would choose me over all the girls that like him at his skool why does he choose me out of all the girls at his skool WHY!!!!? please please please help me should I ask him out or what and If I should what do I say I dont want to sound cheezy HElp!!!! :(
2007-04-16 13:28:48 · 15 answers · asked by joelle 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont just like him for his body I love his personality we have a lot in common and he is really cute
2007-04-16 13:35:42 · update #1
If you two can laugh at the same jokes and enjoy each others company ... give it a try.
Give him a little time to ask YOU out. If he's still not sure or not asking you out ... mention a movie you would like to see. Maybe he will get the hint. If that does not work ... talk to him for a while. Then after a few laughs say, "you know we should go see a movie some time. You know, like together." Then smile. See what happens.
Don't expect the relationship to be perfect. Relationships have there ups and downs. Also, don't think about the other females at his school.
Good Luck.
2007-04-16 13:38:12 · answer #1 · answered by Danny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing what's going on while he's at school will drive you insane unless you can learn to trust him. But from the sound of it, you already don't trust him. And you're a little insecure. For your first boyfriend, you should date someone at your school or in your group of friends that you know you already feel comfortable with. You can go out and have fun with him, if the chemistry is as strong between you two as you say, but I wouldn't consider him for your first boyfriend. You need more stability than that.
2007-04-16 13:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by skimmy12385 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound as though you are very young. And I don't think you should "ask him out". Leave it alone and if you are still so intrigueing and beautiful to him he will get with you. If he thinks he is such a jock, then a relationship away from his groupies would be more tantalizing to all of you. The girls would be far more jealous, but not know how to handle it.
2007-04-16 13:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Buttercup003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in school, it was cool to go to other schools and talk to the girls there. This way you didn't have them chasing you around 24/7 and trying to act like they were your wife and stuff. If a guy likes you let him ask you out. If he doesn't, that means he's probably not interested and no one gets hurt.
2007-04-16 13:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my name's Chris too...cept i'm a guy. I think you guys should go out. If you both like eachother then it shows that it would work out. Also, you could wait a little just in case. Sometimes guys act like this to girls and then you find out that they are like this to everyone. Just wait a while and if you think its all clear, go for it.
2007-04-16 13:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B\c your not there and he can do whatever he wants while your not looking... dont go with him hes only gonna hurt you.
He only wants you for one thing and thats sex. Your like how old you gotta whole life ahead of you stop worrying about him and start worrying about where you wnt to be in life. Focus on your studies...
2007-04-16 13:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him out. Life is too short if you want something or someone just go for it, dont hold anything back. just be straight up with him. Tell him you want to be with him. And ask him if he wants to go out.
Good Luck in life.
2007-04-16 13:35:02 · answer #7 · answered by alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WEll what could be better than a six pack? That's a great reason to like someone. I prefer a case instead.
2007-04-16 13:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask yur cousin if he`s a trut worthy guy so you know if you can trust him 2 be around alot of girls that like him you shouls just ask him out:]
2007-04-16 13:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his phone number from your cuzin and just start talkin and flirtin over the phone, then, if he likes u, he will make the first move.
2007-04-16 13:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by ღTrinaღ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋