She's your ex and you are with someone else as so is she and she gets her boy friend to call you and ask you stuff about the past? I can hear her saying she hates me and is not even my friend, which we were before that phone call, we are all over 29 years old. What is that all about?
2007-04-16 13:25:52 · 22 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're 29? For God's sake, how immature can she and her new boyfriend be? Next time, calmly tell him that you're not interested in re-connecting with your past - tell him that there is a reason you two didn't make it to the future and you'd like to keep the past in the past. Then hang up.
XOXO,
Laurie
2007-04-16 13:28:30 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something is up. I would put on a caution flag in everyting that transpired between the two of you and limit the information that you give out. The simplest things can be of grave importance in quantity. It is always easier to question events like this and prevent catastrophe than to take them with a grain of salt and have your world start disappearing or suddenly change when you thought all was ok. Women change with the weather or their current partner. There are some that make very good partners and some are just there for the company. The good partners do not act like your ex. The ones that do should be approached with extreme caution.
2007-04-16 20:32:55 · answer #2 · answered by g_menagerie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not over you and she's mad that you moved on so she's using her boyfriend to get back at you. Especially at 29, she needs to grow the hell up. You're much better off with your new girl than the crazy immature ex. If he calls again, tell him that what happened is your business and not his and if he really wants to know then he should ask her. Then hang up and never take their calls again. Your ex is trying to drag you down, so just forget her and live your life.
2007-04-16 20:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by skimmy12385 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she has some unanswered questions. I agree having her boyfriend call is a little much and talking in the back ground is kinda silly. I just recently talked to my ex-boyfriend that I hadn't talked to for three years. He had contacted me and my husband wanted me to tell him to stop. I talked to him briefly for that same reason because I had some unanswered questions about some things. I am also 29 so I guess I most be immature too. Lol.
2007-04-16 20:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is with someone else & so are you right? she must be either using the guy (who is stupid anyways to call you the ex & ask questions about your past ) or maybe she's just a weirdo. Move on, regardless! She sounds like a tease & confused stalker at large. No one does that. Her boyfriend & her deserve eachother & stick with your new girl she has to be an improvement!
2007-04-16 20:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get into her mind and try to figure her out. Stick to the facts.
There is a reason why you are with your girlfriend and there is a reason why you left your ex-girlfriend. Remember, if you take spoiled milk, put it in the frig ... it doesn't matter how long you wait. The spoiled milk (aka your ex) will still be spoiled (as in ... not good for you).
2007-04-16 20:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Danny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well of course im no expert, but i would say that she still has feelings, but would prefer that no one knows. and she doesn't want you to find out until she knows how you feel... although since your over 29..that might not be the case, because that is what happens with teens more..but you never know.
2007-04-16 20:32:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm mental illness I would assume. Chances are you broke up because she was overly emotional and it would seem not much has changed my friend.
My advice, change your number and make some new friends, drama like this only has a down side to life!!!!!!!!
2007-04-16 20:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by muzz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clearly she still has feelings for you and is
trying to stir up some sort of sentiment in you.
Hate and love are often the flip side of the same
coin.
I suggest you simply ignore her.
2007-04-16 20:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what that means: she's playing games, and it's a good thing you've moved on. My advice on this is to just tell her you don't want her contacting you anymore, and go forward with your new girl.
Best of luck!
2007-04-16 20:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by *huge sigh* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋