If you like a girl, but you aren't sure if she likes you, and you have been told that this person isn't sure if they like you, should you persue her until she makes it obvious one way or the other? Like, this girl and I have talked either on the phone, or through text many times over the last three or four days, and even spent the night with each other, on her invitation (no sex) late last week, but I have been told by a buddy who is dating her friend, that she isn't really sure.
Should I take that as she doesn't like me in that way? Or should I continue to send nice little texts, and even try and call until she either says she is not interested, or just stops responding?
2007-04-16 12:48:43 · 3 answers · asked by John H 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being not sure is a good sign! It means you actually have a chance! Here is your shot to win her over! Obviously she is not seeing what she wants to see in a prospectable guy, so you have to turn on the charm! Compliment her, out of the blue, and don't stick around lingering. Play a little hard to get, gifts are always good, and handmade goes a lot further than anything you can just buy off the shelf (ie flowers, cards, beaded jewelry...). If you have any skills, now is the time to show them off. Try to find out what she does not like (in a guy) and make sure these are not the traits you have. If she does not choose to be with you, someone else may notice what a great guy you can be!
2007-04-16 13:13:24 · answer #1 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sed she wasnt sure so give her space but still text her a little to show your still interested if she is.
2007-04-16 19:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by charli w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a girl is not sure, that usually means she already had made up her mind about you.....that mean she really isn't into you.
2007-04-16 20:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋