ok y is it wen after u go out with a guy he says all this stuff bout u. Like saying that u r ugly wen not just a week ago he called u beautiful? I WANT TO KNOW WHY!!
2007-04-16 12:47:25 · 16 answers · asked by Ariana V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this guy is playing you and doesn't really care to even remember what he said about you
i believe you deserve someone who is better
2007-04-16 12:50:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ches 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ariana, it's really quite obvious this jerk is a player...!
Naturally, you look no different now than a week ago and he certainly is making those remarks so as to make a quick exit from anoher date.
You definitely don't want a re-run even if he would apologize. He's just pulling your strings.
I think the real answer is with you on that date and you didn't pick up on it. Think back to that date and try to remember how you both acted and if he showed any signs of dislike. Perhaps he was a bit too forward in a joking manner and you didn't pick up on that. Guys will feel you out quite often with sexual jokes or remarks just to give them an edge to move on you if your response agrees with them.
If they don't find what they want then they won't ask you on a date again...that's the game they play. They will move on to their next victim.
Some of those jerks have a real ego problem and won't admit the girl blocked them and so the jerks make insulting remarks to their buds about the girl just to make themselves appear maucho.
What's important here is that you just ignore him entirely and realize you are too good for him. It would be good also if you told your chica friends that he is playing games before one or more of your friends become his prey also.
If by chance you cannot avoid running into him...say nothing...just ignore him completely and walk away even if he wants to talk. If you don't, his insults will continue on.
There are a lot of awesome guys with better manners and respectful attitudes around the corner, so let this jerk be just a learning experience...you deserve better...!
2007-04-16 20:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by farplaces 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beside that statement, about you making him an idiot. If you were all that terrible., why did he did he date you in the first place?
My assumption, is that he tried to do something to you, and you refused him. Which was the smart and best thing to do.
So now he is trying to strike back at you, like the idiot he is.
Tell those people, that fact, if someone tells you what he has been saying about you.
2007-04-16 19:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When men don't get what they want they like to pretend like they never really wanted it or that it wasn't what they thought it was when they wanted it.
For example if you do not have sex with a man and then he goes and tells everyone that you are a lesbian.
Good luck.
2007-04-16 19:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because he's questioning your love/feelings for him we all do it but in different ways. You didn't give me much details about the situation but i have a hunch that, That's why he said it, all we want is to have a girl that is faithful to us thats it faithfull in every way, but like i said it's jus a hunch! Good luck finding out!
2007-04-16 19:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Vibe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh.... not exactly the best subject, but being a gentlemen i will try to answer this for you. Those comments could come from jealousy or regret. If you dumped him, hes probably just jealous or angered, hell get over it. If he dumped you, hes probably mentally disturbed.
2007-04-16 19:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Hahner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think guys say that because they miss what they have so they try to make them feel like the don't miss it when deep down insside they werw wishing you were still together.
2007-04-16 19:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by tiny nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they r letting there anger out they dont mean a e thing at all. they want to make themselves mean strong in front of there friends by saying cruel trhings tht way. dont take it to the head.
2007-04-16 19:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you had a bad fight with a jerk. Their not all like that and after awhile, they do grow up. Good luck :-)
2007-04-16 19:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by a-mac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has turned off on you....let him go as it sounds like he has issues
2007-04-16 19:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by O2Phone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋