I'm going out with my friend's ex. I know he lixe me a lot mor than he liked her but she keeps trying to break us up? who's the bad friend here? her for trying to break us up? me for going out with him in the first place?
2007-04-16 12:46:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the question you should be asking yourself is not who's the bad person, but rather do I want to have a relationship with this man. unfortunately it sounds like your friend is making you choose between them and this guy. you have to decide how much you value the friendship you have with this person and wether it is worth giving up for this man.
good luck
2007-04-16 12:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by soccergrl7324 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it is wrong. My friends can date my ex. And, I know exactly how crappy the relationship will be for them too.
I think you should have stayed away from her ex. But, now that you've probably ruined the friendship anyway it's a little late. Just think maybe he'll be dating one of your friends in a year. Sounds mean. But, he's that kind of guy.
2007-04-17 01:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by 354gr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't give many specifics it's hard to say what's really going on, but if she's trying to break you up, as you say, then obviously it's hurting her. If that doesn't bother you then I guess you're not a great friend. You asked and that's my opinion. It seems important for you to point out that he likes you more than he liked her, as if you want to prove something to yourself and others. (Of course you can never know what he's really feeling about her.) Good luck.
2007-04-16 19:53:04 · answer #3 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should of asked her whether she would mind if you went out with her ex or not.then if she was really over him she would've accepted you and her ex going out but if she constantly tries to break you and the ex up then she is not over him.the "ex" will always have feelings of jealousy and get mad when the other person moves on.I think that she is a bad friend for trying to break you and the ex up but your wrong to b/c you shouldve asked your friend if she would mind if you went out with her ex.this is just my opinion and from past experiences but you should never choose a guy over a good friendship.guys will always come and go but your true friends will always be there for you no matter what happens!!
2007-04-16 19:59:39 · answer #4 · answered by loving you*** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is the bad friend. the ex and your friend broke up before you started to go out with him so you have done nothing wrong. but if she is a really good friend you might want to talk to her about it. and it also depends on how much you like the ex. but from my point of view you should stay with the ex !!!! have fun :P
2007-04-16 19:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Bruno S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First Learn to Spell.
Second, if you really like your friend why would you risk hurting her by going out with her ex? When all is said an done, our girl friends will always be there for you.
Trust me when I say if you loose your friend over a guy, you will eventually regret it.
2007-04-16 19:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE YOU SERIOUS!??? That is one of those rules between friends that doesnt have to be said because its a given! YOU NEVER EVER date your friends ex! How could you do that to your friend? You and her are both the bad guys. You because your dating your firneds ex bf and your friend instead of not talking to you about how she felt she tries to break you and her ex bf up. You guys are both being immature. What you and your friend need to do is TALK. Are you choosing the ex bf over your friend which one is more important to you?
2007-04-16 19:51:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did you and him do any thing befor your friend and he broke up? I think it is wrong for you because break ups is hard if the person was dumped. But it depends how long they been broken up for. If it been a long time I dont think so. But if it was a short period of time then yes.
2007-04-16 19:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by gidget 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you asked her if you 2 could go out first and got her permission. But if not its kinda your fault because it was her ex and everything but the best thing to do is talk to her and apologize. Tell her you really like him but you should of seen if she was ok with it first.
Ok well good luck!
2007-04-16 19:50:23 · answer #9 · answered by msodd33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How close a friend was/ is she? You don't date an actual friend's ex. It just feels wrong. But if she was just someone you talked to occassionally then it is none of her business. And is your guy riding the fence on this one? Is he worth it?
2007-04-16 19:51:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋