This lady and I have been talking for about a year or so. She is a single mother who lives about 5 hours away from me, so I am delicate situation. She came down last year by herself for the weekend, and I pretty much told her that she needs to consider the situation at hand. We spoke of what the future may hold if things continued on, she didn't like that because she told me that, "I am not sure if we even have the chemistry or the love at this point for you and I to take this further." So the trip ended short, she went back to her home, and we really didn't speak to much after that. About a month or so ago, she and I started to talk again, and here in the next two weeks, she is coming back down here to find out if she even likes me. Now, she is 25, and I am 22, and I really like this girl, but my mind is telling me a bunch of things that are bothering me inside. I am just wondering - is this worth it? Should I even bother with this? I just don't know what to do.
2007-04-16 10:17:56 · 4 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her the benefit of the doubt, but only this one final time - then move on if she still has doubts after the visit you have planned.
2007-04-16 10:22:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm a lil confused on the question. I mean you have been talking to a lady but when you told her lets get serious she said I don't like you like that. So she's already given you the Lets be friends speech and now she is seeing if you actually did want to be friends.
You've got to get over her. She was really honest in telling you "I dont see you like that. We don't have chemistry or love". She could not have been more blunt with you.
If you want to be friends with her that is fine but stop seeing this as something that can progress. She's already told you it can't.
2007-04-16 17:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really think its worth it. if she liked you then why didn't she in the first place...its like she only trying to be w/ you when there's nothing else....you could get much MUCH better....thats already a beginning of a relationship you'd have to keep your eye on. do really wanna have to wonder what shes thinkin this time. seems like she can't make up her mind...
2007-04-16 17:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by b a b y : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your inner self, your guts, your instincts.
If you have a feeling that something isn't right, it probably isn't.
2007-04-16 17:22:39 · answer #4 · answered by Zaferus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋