Ummm... ok. Im a ninth grade girl and I like a seventh grade boy. First of all, is that ok? Ive dated many boys my age (15) and some older but never younger. I really like him but im not sure how to approach asking him out???
2007-04-16 10:13:45 · 12 answers · asked by Severus Snape 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Ms Simple P: Here it goes. No one has ever told you how get your man. You have to understand that a man only has a half a brain. The ball is in your court--you make the advances--do what ever you like -- for him to be your man. Even if he does not like it. WHY??? The stupid half brained dudes he hangs with will enfluence who he should be with. The jerks are jealous he has a girl. I been thru it. I listened to the dummies that talk the talk BUT but were afraid to walk the walk. Please, remember guys only have half a brain. He is a 7th grader and he may exhibit shyness towards girls. He is a little afraid of girls. He does not know what to do with one. What ever you do ---he will follow your lead. You lead --he follows. You will be the best looking couple at the Senior Prom. I am older than the people that answered before me. I never went with anyone who was younger than me. Always 2-5-3 years older. I did not choose the girls of my life---they chose me --- asked me out . You are NOT too young to have a lover. I highly recommend that you do have a lover. Now. when you graduate HS and move on to college. Dating takes on a different life. Have fun--go with the guys you want to be with--spend Mom and Dads money. DO NOT EVER SAMPLE DRUGS OF ANY KIND. NO NEVER IF YOUR FRIENDS DO IT ---GET DIFFERENT FRIENDS. IF EVERONE DOES DRUGS ---YOU DO NOT--- TRUST ME..
Please go AFTER what you want -- Have a good time and enjoy your lover..
2007-04-16 11:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Gerald 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you certainly aren't to the point in your life where you will be picking a life partner, a little wisdom from someone who married a man six years younger...it's okay, especially if the two of you enjoy doing the same things.
When I was your age, a girl would NEVER ask a boy out (or only the really 'trashy' girls did.) I'm glad things have changed for the better.
Talk to him at school and just be friendly. If he acts friendly toward you, suggest getting together after school - not so much a "date" as just hanging out together. Eventually, you or he will get up the nerve to make it a date instead of "just friends".
Good luck.
2007-04-16 10:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by PJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age things are complicated - for one thing you don't have a car.
It is okay...but, when you reach legal age, he will have two years to go - that will be a problem. When you go off to college, you'll both have to wait two years. And when sexual intercourse becomes an issue, and it will if it's not already, YOU could go to jail. As rediculous as it sounds, there are plenty of parents that WILL prosecute a girl for "ruining their innocent little boy" - as if!
When you're both under 18 it's a big difference, it's high school vs. college, it's not even a permit vs. you got your OWN car, it's adult vs. child.
That being said, the two of you, most likely will break up one day; sad but true, so you could go for it, but beware the risks.
I'm sorry if that's not the answer you wanted, but if I wanted to spread b.s. I'd still be paying for AOL.
2007-04-16 10:22:01 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course it's okay... age is not really a factor as long as he feels the same way about you. I've dated younger guys and they could be a lot of fun.
Actually, a lot of younger boys feel flattered that someone from a higher grade likes them! :P
But, before you go heads on asking him out, I would advise that you find out more about him first - what he likes, where he hangs out, do you guys have any mutual friends, are there any events or games that you could 'accidently' bump into him at?
Usually, a mutual friend or a social event would be your best bet in such a situation... GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-16 10:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by honeydee21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your too young to date. Dating denotes intimacy. Stay away from that until your old enough. Also, if you date a guy whos 2 years younger he will be just 16 when your 18. There's laws against that.
2007-04-16 10:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by wisemancumth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is a problem. Just realize that when he gets to high school, he will probably be a completely different person and I wouldn't want you getting hurt because of it.
2007-04-16 10:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's mature and not stupid and brave. he'll get the guts to ask you out! good luck cause 7th grade boys through my expierence aren't very mature and few are brave. wish you the best!!!!!
2007-04-16 10:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
der r too problems
1. u r too young to date
2. dont date a guy who is younger than u.
i had dis exprience. it was awful
2007-04-16 10:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by zoyaaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm in 8th w\a 7th grader...just ask...if he likes you too he'll say yes...hope it works out.. and no it don't matter the age...
2007-04-16 10:19:19 · answer #9 · answered by krystalineMarie. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM OUT IF U LIKE HIM DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID I LIKE THIS GUY AND TURN HIM DOWN ON ACIDENT BECAUSE I WAS SCARED AND NOW HE DATE OTHER GIRL ASK HIM OUT GIRL DO IT NOW
2007-04-16 10:19:21 · answer #10 · answered by dogcatrat.pets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋