This guy & I have been dating for a while now & we have had our ups & downs like normal. But he's always going thru my phone looking 4 stuff. I have had my # for bout 2or3 years now so my exboyfriends & male friends n babydad still have my # and every now & then they but not often. He neva have saw that I have calld a guy or a guy call me but he constantly go thru my phone. I could wake up in the middle of tha night n catch him goin thru my phone!!!! When we first got 2getha females stayd calln his phone n I found out when I was sleep one nite he was textn his ex in my house y I was sleep but I didnt act crazy or anything wit him!! So one nite he was using my phone and a guy textd me and he checkd it...Y?!..I dont kno. So we got into it and he decided that he wantd to beat on me in front of my 2year old son. But when females text him he always tel me he cant stop them n I undastand cause they already had his # before we got 2getha. should I kick his a@$ to tha curb or what???!!!!!
2007-04-16 10:12:57 · 34 answers · asked by MsBossy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How inbred are you anyway?
2007-04-16 10:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stop worrying about your boyfriend and start worrying about your inability or unwillingness to use standard English.
It wasn't until I read other peoples answers that I realized I had missed the part about him beating you, that's how turned off I was.
Obviously, get away from the abuser. Next take some time to consider, if you were not wasting your time on the unnecessary drama, what you could do with your life. Can you not move yourself past an environment that supports the whole 'babysdaddy' syndrome? Do you want your son to be another 'babysdaddy' or might he be taught enough respect to marry the mother of his child?
When you do find a decent guy, respect him and the commitment enough to delete former boyfriends from your cell phone. There is no good reason for such a collection.
2007-04-16 10:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Dove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would ditch this guy. He is obviously immature, nor is he worthy as he is threatened by even the hint of competition. He's not ready, you need to put him back in the oven.
And btw, you will be taken a lot more seriously if you spelling things out and use proper punctuation.
2007-04-16 10:18:23 · answer #3 · answered by thedavecorp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i'd do is call the police on his sorry *** and tell him to do one, thats an english term for him to piss off and leave you alone. You'd be alot better off without a guy who treats you like that and not on an equal level. If he gets messages from ex's and that's fine then it should be the same for you. He obviously doesn't respect you so ge rid of him, the sooner the better.
2007-04-16 10:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by sheep socks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you have to ask that question. Jeaousy is very destructive!! To allow yourself to be beat on in front of your child over a phone is insane!! Is that what you want for your child? I hope that you find the strength to get away from him and find better role models for your son. He will grow up to be what he sees. you are worth more than that!!
2007-04-16 11:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok First you need to speak in correct english I can hardly tell what you are writing about.
Second If a guy wants to hit you then you do need to kick his a_ _ to the curb and find someone better
2007-04-16 10:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This man sounds like he has no respect for your privacy. You don't want to be around a person like this, because eventually you feel like you want to shoot yourself. I know from experience. Try to talk things over with him nicely at first, tell him how you feel, etc. See if it works. If it doesn't give him a not-so-nice warning. If that still doesn't work, then, yea, kick his @$$ to the curb.
2007-04-16 10:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by PiNk IcE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not need to stay in an abusive relationship, especially if your son is being exposed to something like that. From my experience, dating a guy who is constantly jealous will never work out.
2007-04-16 10:19:32 · answer #8 · answered by lka501 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a joke? No one can be this trashy for real!
Yo, you and yo babydaddies and yo boyfriend need to go see the Jerry Springer! After dat show, go back to skool to lern how 2 spell k?
2007-04-16 10:19:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should seriously consider leaving him. He sounds abusive, and that won't be good for you or for your son. If you think he will try to hurt you if you break up with him, either go to a father/brother/uncle/cousin or another friend for protection or call the police.
2007-04-16 10:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes!! Get rid of the jealous bastard! Most of the time when guys or girls act insanely jealous it's because they're the ones being untrue. And if he hit you, you should definitely get rid of him. What are you teaching your son?? That you don't deserve to be treated with respect?? Get rid of him.
2007-04-16 10:18:06 · answer #11 · answered by Sasha B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋