Verble abuse help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Question

my step dad yells at me 24/7 and now he is gone to hunting for a week and he us to beet up my mom. i need help......... NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

awww, ok, firstly I'd like to say I'm sorry you and your mom are in such a misfortunate situation.

The thing is, you CAN NOT play or be the victim.

You are a human being, and so is your mom && neither of you deserve to be treated with anything less than the upmost respect.

Your mom shouldn't stay with someone who treats her badly, and she shouldn't keep him around you if he's verbally abusive.

Talk to your mom. I know it will be kind of akward and weird but I'm sure it will be a good talk that you both need to discuss.

Just go up to here & ask if ya'll can chat for a bit & get closer. This is a perfect chance for you guys to talk, too, especially since your step-dad is away hunting right now.

Tell your mother how you feel when he yells at you & at your mom & how it bothers you because you know you and your mom don't deserve to be treated that way.

I'm sure she's a great mother & just wants the best for the both of you. Let her know the best thing is to either go to counciling or to get rid of your step-father.

I wish you the best of luck & I will keep you in my prayers.
Goodluck & Godbless you & your mom.

Answer 2

I know what it's like to feel powerless against such a vicious bully, your mum must press charges against him, and have the guts to leave.
I know the fear, and he's probaly told her that he'll find her if she leaves, but i bet that the beatings will get worse if she stays, because he's got away with it , so's there's nothing to stop him from doing it again, and he will !
Living in fear is not a life, and no matter how much he's sorry or how much she loves him, she has a duty to protect you and it's only a matter of time before you too become a punch bag!
If he is genuinally sorry and it's a one off then maybe anger management classes are the answer, if he does it again call the police during the incident if your mum is powerless then you have to take charge, you will be happy , good luck, and i'll say a prayer for you :)

Answer 3

You should go to a neighbor that you trust or a friend and call the police. There is no excuse for him to do this to you or your mom. She needs to end this relationship, now!! Has he ever laid a hand on you?? Well, just make sure that you stay safe and contact the police or an abuse helpline or a website that is made for people who are abused, here are some:

1-800/4-A-CHILD (24 hrs)

1-800/222-2000 (24 hrs)

1-800-785-8111

http://www.abusehelplines.org/

http://www.dahmw.org/pub/

http://www.metacrawler.uk.com/dma/dom_display_splash.jsp;jsessionid=B87E90ED4232B0445673C8E4E4A041AB?pContentID=190&p_applic=CCC&p_service=Content.show&

http://www.verbalabuse.com/SupportResources.shtml





i really hope that helps you and im sorry for the situation youre in!! Good luck =)

Answer 4

First of all, it is spelled verbal abuse, and beeting is spelled beating.....

You need to pick up the phone book and find a telephone hot line for abuse...

I do not know where you live, but help should only be a phone call away.

Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

Is he asking you to beat up your mom, or did he beat up your mom? Either way you need to call the police, call children and family services, or tell a teacher to get some help. You should not have to live in that environment.
Best of luck. If you can let us know what happens.

Answer 6

I think you should call and get some help for yourself - like a crisis hotline in your area. They will have some referrals to give you to assist you.
Try talking to your mom, and see if she will pursue you all leaving or pressing charges against him while he is gone.

I know there are a lot of women shelters out there that help women in abusive relationship a place of escape. They give you shelter and help you to get back up your feet.

I hope that everything works out....

Answer 7

Definatly call 911, or visit the local police station. See your school counseler, and your principal for aditional help, but do all of this before he gets home. I have been in the same situation before. All is better now...trust me...my advice works! Good luck, and I hope you don't get hurt.

Answer 8

Tell your mother to get out of that relationship for her on self and yours..He's an *** hole...That's all there's to it..If a man other then the father of kids yelled at my children or hurt me i would so leave him Or call the police or CPS on your mother for not defending you..Come on girl! this isn't even a Question you should be asking...!!!!!!! I work here at the hospital and i see so many children die everyday by stepfather's...You better get your butt and move on this talk to your mother and tell her if she doesn't take more caution for your safety or hers your going to the police..

Answer 9

Yahoo! Answers people can tell you what to do but they cant show any action. We are strangers. What you need is help. Call the police and 911. Im sure theyll be able to help better then we can. You should also talk to your mom.

Answer 10

Every ones right, call the police. Have you talked to your mom? Try talking to her and tell her how you feel.
I know that might not be so easy I had to deal with a situation kinda like yours but still try. Cry to her if you have to.
Just know no matter what you don't deserve to be treated that way and always stick up for yourself even if your mom doesn't like it call the police you shouldn't have to suffer not even for her.
I will be prying for you.