i duno how to keep myself from calling him and wanting to see him...
i dont want to b selfish and i really want to stop...
any ideas?
2007-04-16 09:12:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STOP for a little
it might get annoying if you keep sending letters and calling
and he might break up
2007-04-16 09:16:50 · answer #1 · answered by isabella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, but you gotta find something else to do. The only thing that can happen is he'll realize he misses your attention and let you know the time apart thing was the wrong thing to do. Or both of you will move on to find new people, and you weren't meant to be together anyways. So even though you miss him it'll be tough but you gotta stick to it. Don't give in! Do something good for yourself like go shopping, get a new haircut, maybe do your makeup. It'll keep you busy and he might even notice and be upset with himself that he wanted to do the time away thing!!
2007-04-16 09:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by tcafri 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not being selfish for wanting to call him. Since you two are in a sort of time out, you really don't have much to lose by calling him anyway. Either it is going to work or it's not, calling him won't make a difference in that regard.
2007-04-16 09:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a problem with wanting to call him and see him, that just means that you care about him and miss him. Bottom line if he asked for space, you respect that and if you really care about him, you will respect that and give him space, and he will appreciate you a lot more if you respect his wishes. If everything works out for y'all the relationship should be a lot better. To keep your mind off of him read, call other friends, and try not to do things that would remind you of him.
2007-04-16 09:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tell It How It Is!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*You might want to refrain yourself from calling him, because he might be testing you also? I know it sounds funny, but girls and guys do that to each other to see how long you can stand not being able to talk to them.
-My boyfriend thinks it is a game, he's done it to me on purpose...and still acting like an immature idiot and doing it right now, because he knows it pisses me off.
*Anyways yeah so leave him alone, because if you try talking to him when he has told you basically not to...you will seem desperate and needy all in one package. So go hang out with your girls and do your own things and worry about yourself for once. He said he wanted time off so give it to him. Let him be.
~When he feels like talking to you he will come around and do just that. Until then.....find something else to do with your time besides thinking of him. ~
2007-04-16 09:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by Shut your mouth when u tlk to me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not "together" together, then maybe you could try talking to other guys...or at least flirting with them. If you don't want to do that, you could try doing some activites like going to the mall, ice skating, etc with friends and/or family. Make sure to remove all the "memories" of him such as pictures, gifts, etc so you won't be stopped by them and remember (until you guys are back together).
2007-04-16 09:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I why did he ask for time off??? You have to think of that... Honestly, what is time off??? Like he is taking a vacation from you??? I think people like him are to weak to tell the other person that they want or they found someone else they want to see... SO it's is easier for them to put you on hold and make you wait till they find out if this other person is a possibility...
OR....
He may just want to see what else is out there... BUT come on time off????
SO...
Call him and ask him if you are on time off that means I can go on a date with this guy who just asked me right??? See what he says... Because someone who says they want time off... to me it sounds a little WEIRD...
GOOD LUCK! I hope this helped
2007-04-16 09:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by Who knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in this same situation before and i have to say that the best thing for you to do is MOVE ON. find something else to put your energy into and not to think about him, go for a swim, or a jog, or paint, or go out and flirt with other guys. keep yourself busy and only time will tell. good luck.
2007-04-16 09:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to hang out with your friends more and get him off your mind and after a few weeks if you still cant stop thinking about him call him once and talk to him and see is he still wants time off. if he says he does and you still have trouble with wanting to call him tell him and say either were together or were done cause you cant stay in between its to hard.
2007-04-16 09:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by cutiee pie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need a clear understanding of how long he has in mind for the time off.
if it's just for two or three weeks then bite the bullet and stop calling him. it means he really needs a breather to clear his own head.
if he's thinking two or three months... you need to make a serious effort to fill your time and also think through why he needs space.
2007-04-16 09:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋