Look I'm really fat, How do I get a date ?

Question

I've been thinking about getting a Filipina Mail order bride

Answer 1

go to the p.i. and pick her up so to avoid scams,

Answer 2

First off, you do know that getting a mail order bride is not the same thing as getting a date, right? And that ordering up an economically-disadvantaged woman from a third-world country and pressing her into service as your wifey is really, really sleazy, right?

You want to get a date, work on having some sort of social life first. You don't elaborate on your life (except to call yourself fat) in your question, but probably, first and foremost, you need to get out and do more among people who share your interests. That will allow you to meet people (some of which, inevitably, will be women), and forge friendships that can eventually provide the groundwork for finding the kind of relationship you want.

And, I suppose it probably wouldn't hurt to get your weight under control, either.

You may now be thinking that my advice is too much work, and that there should be a way for you to get a date without changing your ways, but, sad fact is, you want something, you gotta either work for it, or accept a sad, pale imitation of it (like, say, your mail order bride idea).

Answer 3

dude u gottta lose the weight and dont order a bride thats ****** up man just dont lose the weight and u can get a girl and the girl will actually love u since u didnt buy her off the internet

Answer 4

My cousin is really fat too and he had no problem finding a wife on Eharmony.com and has never had a problem finding dates either. He is not that tall either 5'10". He is now married and his wife is heavy too, but they love each other and make a great couple.

At least if your fat you can do something about it, like go on a diet. Short guys can't do anything to grow taller.

Answer 5

Forget the date, concentrate on you, walk, exercise - lose some of that blubber that is holding you back in a myriad of ways...not to mention, endangering your health TO have a relationship with a woman AND feel good about yourself. That's where you should put your effort these days...the rest comes later!

You'll be glad you did...

Grace

Answer 6

Why not check the Big and Beautiful meetings in your area and just go and socialize with them?

Answer 7

LOSE WEIGHT!
not even for the date...just to be health!

Answer 8

lose the weight, or date a fat chick.

Answer 9

lose some weight

Answer 10

lmao

hell, what ever works for you!
then do it! more power to you!

and plus nobody needs to know where she come from...