shes really mad at me right now and we broke up a really long time ago. i think i should say something to her because i want to be her friend again. what should i say?
2007-04-16 08:56:41 · 16 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her," what we had was a long time a go. can we forget it and just go back being friends?" now make it sound more manly of course. also if she doesn't accept f*ck her. you always got me....duh.
2007-04-16 09:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever broke you up in the first place is what you will have to convince her your sorry about or whatever. Trying now to be friends is probably too soon. She needs to cool off. Start by giving her some space. Avoid her. She may come to you. Send you little gifts, funny stuff, that says you value her as a friend. Do whatever it takes, if that is what you want. I personally, would let her come to you..
2007-04-16 09:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First ask yourself why do you want to you contact her again? Is it out of guilt, shame, mis-understanding? After you answer those questions what whould be your motive in all of this. You say that you want to be her friend again, what would be your reason for wanting to be her friend? You were her boyfriend before? Can you seperate the two? Personally, if you two split on bad terms and you want to apologize, go for it BUT do not expect anything in return.
Let her accept your apology if she decides and go from there.
2007-04-16 09:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by Vetta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her or text her and ask how she is doing. let her know that you miss your friendship you had with her and if she doesn't mind you would like to start calling her or hanging out with her again as friends. MAKE SURE YOU TELL HER THAT YOU WANT TO JUST BE FRIENDS. if you don't she will totally take this the wrong way and think that you want to get back together with her. that would piss her off even more.
2007-04-16 09:01:34 · answer #4 · answered by play hard 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex, that means you don't owe her anything. Don't waste your time trying to be friends, she doesn't want anything to do with you. On top of that, it makes you look weak something she despised in you.
Forget her and move on, that is what she had done.
2007-04-16 09:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i'm a girl so i know what we want to hear out of a guy. O.K. be nice don't frill it up (like stalk her and stuff) just say "hey i heard htis and that." a simple "hey" would make her smile deep down
2007-04-16 09:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Carrie hates allen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you did something horrible to her then i highly doubt she will ever want to talk to you again. If it was over something small then try and talk to her start off with Hi how have you been doing. GL dude.
2007-04-16 09:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably better off leaving her alone. If she is mad, she will most likely get angrier by talking to her. Give it time.
2007-04-16 09:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by ropman1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends y shes mad...but the best thing to always say to a girl is "i was wrong you were right im sorry" we love it when guys say they were wrong
2007-04-16 09:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that u are sorry for whatever happend...if that dosnt work try saying stuff like...just think of what we use to have and now we hate each other!!! we shoudl just be friends!!! somthing like that but put your own personality into it!!!
2007-04-16 09:01:01 · answer #10 · answered by Princess(seven/sixteen/ohnine) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋