We have been together for two years now and are both 22. I am in school and he has been talking about going back for 2 years. We argue so much about the future. He says to be patient with him, but I don't see any ambition in him. I don't wanna break up, but I hate the way things are going.....what should I do?
2007-04-16 08:44:04 · 8 answers · asked by vas_girl_2000 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh my god. do not worry. so many of us go through this. we spend years with guys who only like to talk about what they want to do. the truth is, from my point of view, if you want to do something you'll do it. YOu're in school right and you're making it work. why can't he??? he probably feeds you a bunch of reasons (excuses) why he's not going right now. I say let him go. could be years before he actually gets his stuff together and try someone new. it'll feel great being with someone who has a future just like you. trust me i ended a relationship just like this in dec. with a 25 yr. old loser. now i'm dating a guy with a degree and house (things he should probably have at this age) I deserve this and so do you!!!!
2007-04-16 08:49:39 · answer #1 · answered by jay-z8900 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know your pain. Honestly, you just need to be patient with him. If he truly wants to go back, he will. If it is bothering you this much then you probably should save yourself anguish and just end it even though you love him. The best things in life are often the hardest to do.
2007-04-16 08:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is not fair to expect someone to change for you. Growing up at 22??? That's nuts! You have so much life to live. You should love him for who is, not for what you want him to be. If you're not happy, you should leave him, not change him.
2007-04-16 08:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont push him into marriage that merely makes a crappy marriage. i think of the rationalization hes so sluggish to marry you is as a results of the fact hes getting the milk with out procuring the cow. So I say unload him.
2016-12-20 16:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by jepsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to argue about the future it is not worth it find some one as ambitious as you.
2007-04-16 09:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by linda a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U can either wait or move on with your life. It's your choice.
2007-04-16 08:50:48 · answer #6 · answered by Megan C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's not Going to grow up overnight... stop argueing
if you cant live with what he is doing, its time to move on
2007-04-16 08:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing you can do. You cannot change a person who refuses to change.
2007-04-16 08:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋