everytime I like a guy and he's CUTE, he treats me like scum. He uses me for sex, barely calls me, and stands me up. But if there's a guy that I absolutely DON'T like, he treats me like a princess? He NEVER stands me up, and he is ALWAYS available. I know cute guys have a lot of options, etc. but come on! I'm sick of this!
2007-04-16 08:42:48 · 55 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because life is not fair, princess.
2007-04-16 08:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You ARE gold to the ugly ones. I recommend you keep looking, because some day your going to come across a guy who you think is cute AND treats you like gold. I would recommend not having "sex dates" with the guys you go out with until you know what they intend. Go for coffee or a movie or something, somewhere where an "accident" can't happen.
2007-04-16 08:48:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't look at the situation as the "cute" ones..... the "ugly" ones will treat you the same way IF you let them. Start to examine yourself and ask the question what are you doing perhaps to let the "cute" ones get away with certain standards if any that the "ugly" ones will have to walk on nails to accomplish. MEN in general will "only" treat you a certain why that you allow them to treat you....that's across the board. Meaning Ugly & Cute.
2007-04-16 08:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Vetta 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't just pick on guys. Drop dead gorgeous girls are the same way too.
You know looks are not everything to a relationship, why are you being so shallow?
So you are saying you would rather have a cute guy who treats you like trash then an unattractive man that does everything for you. That is pathetic, I would never want to date a girl like you. Just being honest.
2007-04-16 09:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men treat you only how you let them...Stop giving it up so easy and make them want it..The ugly guys are still trying to get it the cute ones got it already and what more do they need. They need time to get to know you and then real feelings will come out.
2007-04-16 08:47:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffster 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is because some cute guys tend to be proud i.e. their have pride because they know if they lose you they will obviously get another lady. Please don't love a guy basing on the appearance/looks because a disaster can happen and he can be disfigured as pride comes before a fall and in anycase us as human being grow old our physical appearance changes to worse. So stop being used whoever has ever let you down was not ment for you, it is the high time to value yourself dont agree to be used. Ok dear
2007-04-20 01:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, you said the "ugly ones." That isn't very nice. Maybe you should rethink how you come across to all of them, and see if you treat them any differently. Sometimes the energy that we put out there can be mistaken for something else by other people.
You may come across as too needy to the ones you consider attractive. Try to look beyond their outward appearance to see the entire package. There could very well be a fantastic guy/lover/boyfriend behind a face that you weren't expecting. You might miss out if you don't try to look beyond the outward appearance.
2007-04-16 08:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's because you are being to superficial. You are only looking at the guys who have the "good looks." Those guys are going to treat you like crap and won't have an ounce of respect for you.
My mother always told me, "marry a geek or a nerd, they spend hours trying to figure out what women really want and they will be the best in bed." I've found that to be true.
Looks fade with age, but a good heart will last forever.
2007-04-16 08:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lillian M 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cute guys always think they can do whatever they want. Its hard to find a good cute guy. They always cheat on you or treat you badly. Its best to catch them when they get old and stop playing as many games!! But if you must have a super sexy guy, its best not to be serious with him, and have other options while dating him. Cute guys like challenges, if you are not into them, they are gonna try harder to get your attention. But then when they get it they may use you, or you may have gotten lucky and made them see the light! :) Whatever you do, good luck! I am happy with my semi-cute guy. :D
2007-04-16 08:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by vas_girl_2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, life is not always fair , right? guess u have to look on the insides of a man to know who he really is. Would you want to be with the cute guy who treats you like a toy? Sooner or later , the cuteness will fade away.
2007-04-16 08:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by ryoma 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha, I know exactly what you mean. I feel the same way about the girls that I come in contact with. Well, keep your eyes opened for that special guy, because I know that there is one out there for you who'll treat you like the princess you are. Just don't give up hope! Do you have Yahoo/Msn Messenger... I have both. Lets chat sometime (jmackey_2002).
2007-04-16 08:46:37 · answer #11 · answered by gododjgjodjod 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋