Ok.....I REALLY like this girl......like, a lot, she doesnt know it even though its really obvious(saying ima make her her favorite cake and buying the biggist tub if her fav candy for her b day.......and also buying her the lil things like her favorite color of nail polish) but she just cant see it......just today she was all taking about this character that she liked....and i guess they made out for the first time in their life just the other day.....and..OMFG...you cant believe it..I WAS CRUSHED LIKE NO OTHER...i kinda broke down, to be honest....and i have no clue what i should do about it...should i tell her how i feel, tell her best friend(shes my good friend too) or leave her alone?...........PLEASE help a crushed 15 year old.
2007-04-16 08:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Bro, just tell her. Life is too short to wonder "what if?"
Tell her.
2007-04-16 08:22:44 · answer #1 · answered by bitchlips411 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just suck it up and be a man, don't become a wuss for her when she already got a guy and they already made out.
I've been in the same spot as you, trying to be prince charming all the time and you just get stepped on anyway just pull back what you gave to her i mean the person you are, being always there for her and stuff just pull it all back and see how she reacts about it if she reacts about the sudden change then just tell her how you feel in way like you don't care about that anymore lol
2007-04-16 15:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by speedster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think that you should just leave it and move on. I know it will be hard but you have your whole life to like someone new and it will bound to happen I bet in like 2 weeks you might like someone knew. So I wouldn't really tell her you liked her cause it might make something ackward between you two. Plus your 15 its not like you 25 you have your whole life to worry about girls. And having a gf right now I think is pretty pointless cause your 15 and cause you have your whole life to find someone just chill with girls and hang out with them.
2007-04-16 15:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by candi*cane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should tell her how u feel but dont use to strong of words like i love becuase u might scare her away and lose a friend to just tell her u have feeling for her but dont worry man if she doesnt feel the same ur young and theres a lot of fish in the sea u might not beleive it now but there r turst me i been it the same Situation as u ok, just keep ur head up man ok its not the end of the world it might seem like it but its not
2007-04-16 15:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by nova_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her and then you wait to see what happens, or stay quite dont say anything and try hitting on her... maybe with the time she starts feeling something about you... good luck
2007-04-16 15:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out to lunch, the movies, anything...spend some time with her if she'll accept - THEN decide whether you're still serious about her...If she turns you down, its clear, she's NOT interested in you anymore than a friend.
Grace
2007-04-16 15:23:27 · answer #6 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww im sorry! truly am! i hope u feel better! I don't really know what to tell you though...I think that you deserve better and its obvious she possibly doesnt see you no more than a friend...I think you should try to gradually get over her, you deserve better...I know its hard but try! Hope all ends well!
2007-04-16 15:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by yeah 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You either tell her how you feel or move on...those are your only options
2007-04-16 15:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jen_n_TX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋