Can heaven help me?
2007-04-16 08:11:21 · 24 answers · asked by socmum16 ♪ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wow ... I didn't know people felt so vehemently about children. For the record, I love my children, want my children and stay at home to be with my children. I don't need advice on birth control, why do you think I don't have more children?
2007-04-16 08:37:33 · update #1
If you're not loco yet, you will be soon! I have experienced 3 kids under the age of 5. All I can tell you is, they do grow. I hope for your sake you have a supportive extended family- that was something we lacked. One or two good grandparents can help. And yes, Heaven can help too.
*Folks, she didn't ask for birth control advice or judgments on how she lives her life. She didn't say she doesn't want and love her children. How has our society so twisted itself that being a mother is now among the most thankless of jobs? Her children may grow up to be the doctors that care for you when you are old, or the scientists who discover a cure for cancer.
2007-04-16 08:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Amalthea 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No that's not loco. My older sister is but 15 months older than I my younger brother 13 months younger, and younger sister, 3 years younger. That means my mom had 4 children under the age of five and she was only 23 at the time! Now *that* may be loco.
2007-04-16 08:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're not crazy. After this baby comes, I'll have 3 under 3. Try that one!!! At least yours are spaced a little more. Of course, mine weren't planned. With the first, we were told we couldn't get pregnant, so we stopped worrying about it. The second, I was on the mini-pill and breastfeeding- found out when my oldest was almost 7 months old that I was expecting again. Then with this one, the pill didn't work, breastfeeding never works for me for a form of birthcontrol, and I can't get an IUD because of the hormones they use in them. So, We were using the barrier method. Apparently, that didn't work either... so my moral is, just because you are on birth control, doesn't always mean it will work!! And trust me, I know how to use them ALL.. I'm in that line of work after all!! ;)
2007-04-16 08:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by odd duck 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't loco before, you sure are loco now... Three kids under the age of five is way too much to handle. Look into birth control.
2007-04-16 08:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you are not loco. But three children under five can be a big challenge. You are a dedicated mother to give up an selfish pursuits to focus on rearing children. My hat goes off to you.
2007-04-16 08:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kerry 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think your normal. Everyone is different, some people can handle kids, others can't. I have 2 children ages 3 & 4. It's hard work when there ages are so close together. I wouldn't change a thing about my life. My kids sre great, and since they are so close in age, they are great friends. Good luck.
2007-04-16 08:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Cresha B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't see how you couldn't be loco with three children under 5. Love is the key I believe to sanity, if that's your goal.
Good luck with that.
2007-04-16 08:16:09 · answer #7 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't call you loco, just very busy.Enjoy them, they will grow up real fast.I have 5 grands 3 and under.Now we do have a time at Family get together.But we wouldn't trade them for the world.And Heaven did help you already..Be Blessed......
2007-04-16 08:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I KNOW you are loco!! I have three under the age of 2 and a half and I am going insane :))) Best of luck - children are a blessing!!
Nada Mohamed
2007-04-16 08:18:20 · answer #9 · answered by Crazygurl1972 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Not loco, just tired.
Yes, heaven can help you. Specifically, those in Heaven can help you. Pray to God to send His Holy Spirit for understanding, right judgement, knowledge, strength, courage, wisdom, and and piety and pray to Mary, who was the mother of our Lord Jesus Christ, to pray on your behalf.
2007-04-16 08:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sldgman 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋