She said that she doesn't want me to be with him.But İ love him,and he loves me......what should İ do?
2007-04-16 08:07:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow,why doesnt she want u 2 to be together and does she also express this to him,what does he say ? Unless she has a very good reason(s) why she feels this,then she is not as good as a friend as u think.A good reason(s) would be if he was beating on u etc. otherwise its none of her business! if u are both happy then she should be happy for u both.if there are no good reasons then i would question her motives,does she not like sharing her time with him?My sons girlfriend and my daughter are good friends,she has never suggested anything like this;there is something not right with her,its not right.if she continues find another close friend,keep her at a distance.good luck.
2007-04-16 08:22:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them both. Why is it she wants you to end it? Do she & her brother not get along? If she's your best friend and his sister; she ought to like the idea of two people she loves being happy. But anyway.
2007-04-16 08:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by kevness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why does she not want you to be together?
I mean it is her brother--she might know something there. I know a lot of my best guy friends would never let me date their friends. Just b/c they are friends with the guy doesn't mean they don't recognize that he is a jerk to women.
Maybe she knows he is cheating on you. I'd sit down and ask her why she feels that way. She may just be jealous and not like that you spend so much time with him and ignore her. But she might know something important. You never know unless you ask her.
2007-04-16 08:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most sisters are just afraid that their brothers are going to get hurt. They don't want it to be their friends that do it, because then they are torn between two people they love.
If she's a good enough friend, she'll realise that you learn from things like this. She should also trust you enough to take care of her brother.
2007-04-16 08:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Felicia B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh that's horrible..First I would talk with his sister about this (reason, the problem)..If she is really ur best friend, she shouldn't want this from u more...But if she still doesn't accept ur relationship, brak up with ur bf..Because friend is always important than bf.You can be together with ur friend forever, but not with ur bf..
Good luck.I hope u won't have to make a decision..
2007-04-16 08:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Irmak 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what makes you happy! As your friend, she should be happy that you have found someone that shares your feelings. Keep in mind though, as a result of this relationship, your friendship may never be the same..
2007-04-16 08:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Мəəĸά 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be with him. If you love him don't let anyone get in the way. Tell her to grow up and get over it. If she is really your friend she will support your happiness. I am really good friends w/ my fiances sister.
2007-04-16 08:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is bad. I mean i had a relation ship like that and you know what when we broke up. Me and my friend stopped being friends to. I mean it was terible. I was so upset. so i think that that is the worst situation.
2007-04-16 08:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is really your best friend, she would be happy for you, you need to talk to her, and ask her why she feels that way.
2007-04-16 08:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by kitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its knida of hard to see yo bf goin out wit yo bro..one of my bf went wit my bro..i didnt want to let her atfirst..i was mad..but she gotta learn to accept it..even if she don t she should mind her business..i accepted it...and if u guys r n love then se should chill out...now what if she went wit yo bro and they were n love, but u didnt liek it and wanted them to break up "how would she feel"
2007-04-16 08:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by mesha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋