Me and my boyfriend were doing really good in our relationship then today he told one of his friend's to tell me that he can't go out with me anymore because his parents said that his grades are slipping. So his parents are making hhim break up with me. So I just got done balling my freaking eyes out and almost threw up on my floor. WHAT SHOULD I DO???
2007-04-16 07:42:00 · 34 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get on with your life. he should have told you himself.
2007-04-16 07:45:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay geez people have a little sympathy as if she's your younger sister, if you have nothing but rude things to say then just dont answer.
I have been through the same thins as im sure many people have, talk to him and find out, if its true maybe if you want you can stay friends, maybe not. But you'll go through a lot of relationships till you find the right one =) I was sure I found him in 10th grade we dated for 3 years then he left me =( I couldnt imagine being with him now I have 2 beautiful daughter and another baby on the way and an amazing husband. You'll meet guys in college or whatever you decide to do. But in the mean time to feel better, if yuor close talk to your mom or just grab your favorite snack watch some tv or call a girl friend! I sure hope this helps!! Feel better soon, i know it feels like the end of the world but trust me its not =)
2007-04-16 07:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by Travis and Kelly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that- you deserve so much better. Only a complete disrespectful coward would break up with someone like that. He could at least have spoken to you himself. If he is a man and if he is worth it he will not be a mummy/ daddy's boy and also he won't use them as the excuse- and it sounds like that is all that it is- an excuse.
You just need to let yourself feel- have a cry as much as you need, try to spend lots of time with friends and talk about it, but also try to spend sometime where you do something fun and make a rule to have a rest from talking about him.
You really deserve a man- not a boy- and one who will treat you with honesty, love, chivalry and respect.
2007-04-16 07:48:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, considering he didn't even have the guts to tell you to your face, I would say forget about him. You must be really young, and I know it doesn't seem like it now, but there WILL be other guys.
I'm sure his parents are just looking out for his best interest, and maybe in time he will pick his grades up and you can get back together, if that's what you want.
2007-04-16 07:47:28 · answer #4 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, u should stop bawling your eyes out, it’s not the end of the world, don’t be dramatic, and secondly, when you see your boyfriend, or I guess now, your “ex” ask him why he had his friend “break up” with you for him instead of just telling you himself, and tell him, you’re willing to work with him, if he needs to finish his homework or whatever, before he can see you or talk to you on the phone, then you’re okay with that, if he says no, then it’s not that his parents made him break up with you, it’s because he wanted to himself but was too chicken to do so. And if that’s the case, then you’re better off single anyway, babe.
2007-04-16 07:49:03 · answer #5 · answered by TheBeautifulMess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the better question is, what should BOTH of you do.
If you guys like each other a lot, thats not a very good legitimate reason to break up. I think if he needs to pull up his grades, you guys should just see each other less until school is over. You guys should have a nice talk about this to see if it is a good idea =)
2007-04-16 08:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship couldn't have been all that great if he told one of his friends to tell you that he had to break up because of his grades. His parents are correct in making him do that. Maybe you should take advantage of the situation and concentrate on your grades also.
2007-04-16 07:47:40 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Twinkle♥Toes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there!! It does not sound like he does not care for you but has other issues. With Summer on the way, hopefully you will be able to go out. From there, try to figure out a good balance together. This is a great chance for you to connect with your friends.
2007-04-16 07:49:32 · answer #8 · answered by Madisonman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Concentrate on your grades, or you can date secretly, Or I just got An IDEA!!
You can get him to tell his parents that he is going to study at the library with some "Friends" From school. That way his parents think that he is going to study. You can help him with his homework! and Meet up with him
2007-04-16 07:58:59 · answer #9 · answered by Dillon C (who else) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pistol Pistol Pistol, then 12 gage shotgun. if you was in love wit this dude then his parents have no reason to take him away from you. No amount of bad grades is worth takin love away from ppl. So eiher you can tell them or you can mail me they numba and i can tell them for you. But if he really loved you then it wouldn't matter if his parents broke yall up he would stay wit you. Somebody aint tellin the truth. STOP cryin and ask some questions. Then BUSS CAPPS.
2007-04-16 07:55:58 · answer #10 · answered by Mistro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill! They were probably just threatening him. Maybe you could ask them to allow you to study at his kitchen table with him 2 nights a week or for 2 hours on Saturdays. Then his grades would probably go up and they'd see that you are committed to education. :)
2007-04-16 07:47:30 · answer #11 · answered by searching_please 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋