ok i am a blonde blue eyed girl with curves n 8th grade and none of the boys like me i am pretty they all say but why doesnt anyone wanty to be my boyfriend??
2007-04-16 07:34:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They're dumb? honey, the last thing you want to do is try to figure out 8th grade boys. And if they don't like you, oh well. Too bad for them. You'll be in high school soon and that's a whole 'nother ball game. Different boys and more of them. Try not to stress it too much and you'll get a GREAT boyfriend in time.
2007-04-16 07:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by Clever_Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may/may not like my answer, but there could be many possibilities why boys don't like you.
your personality...are you a kind/caring person? if yes, then i see no problem. Maybe boys are just shy around you because you're way too beautiful for them to handle the pressure to ask you out.
and...most importantly, being in a relationship at 8th grade is...not a good idea... i strongly suggest that you should wait at least 1 or 2 years before being in a relationship.
Best wishes, and i hope i didn't offend you.
2007-04-16 14:39:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes more than good looks to win a boy worth dating. Examine your attitude. Are you putting down people, or bullying others? Are you not genuine? These things can put people off.
If that's not the problem, then maybe your good looks are scaring away potential boyfriends. Try dressing down once in awhile. Sweats are comfortable.
Or it could be that you come across as too high maintenance. Make sure that your not always talking about money and things.
2007-04-16 14:43:52 · answer #3 · answered by pensacola_sand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because if you hang with the boys, no guys want you... it's like a rule in guy's hearts... usually if a girl hangs with the guys, sooner or later she is cheating with another one... it's like a broken record, happens all the time. And the girl really didn't want to cheat on her man, usually some other guy smooth talked her into it... anyways... girls that hang with guys usually never get a guy that respects her... she usually ends up with one that will treat her like dirt for the rest of her life and they cheat on each other. It doesn't matter how "cute" you look. Because there are a million other cute girls in the world that don't hang out with guys...
If you don't hang with the boys, maybe you are to conceeded... by the discripsion you gave of yourself, it kinda looks like you might have your nose up to high and they just want to be down to earth... I donno
HEY!!!! 8th GRADE!?!?!?!?!? you're to young to be looking at boys to like you... heck, none of them have jobs, much less a goal in life yet. Girl, focus on your life rather than lusting over boys! sheeeesh... 8th grade with curves, you have got to be kidding me.
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2007-04-16 14:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by Myles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about having a boyfriend right now, I know how I was then and thats all I wanted, but trust me just have fun with your girl friends and have some guy firneds but dont start dating right now, Im sure you are beautiful but just wait and the right guy will come for you! Just have fun!! Your to young to start worrying about guys yet =) give it a year or two. GOOD LUCK! =)
2007-04-16 14:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by Travis and Kelly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are scared that u will reject them, one of boys worst fears, and some boys dont realy get that interested in girls until they are older, there is nothing wrong with you!!!, i am brunette tallish and curvy and guys said i was pretty but i 1st got asked out at the end of the 8th grade because aparently some of the guys were scared i would say no
be flurtatious so they know u are interested, im sure u will get asked out, but dont stress if you dont
2007-04-16 14:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kat88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men mature more slowly than women, especially mentally.
They are probably afraid to approach you.
The prettiest girl in my high school class didn't have a date for the prom! Everyone thought she had a date already.
Relax, and give it time. Good luck.
2007-04-16 14:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because it's 8th grade and guys don't learn what they actually want until they're about 55 years old. Trust me... you're better off without them.
2007-04-16 14:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is more to relationships than looks, examine how you are acting around them or treating them. some of the best relationships can come out of friendship, so for right now try developing some strong friendships, don't be so concerend about relationships.
2007-04-16 14:38:49 · answer #9 · answered by blue_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they dont see you as girlfriend material.Seriously, being someone's gf/bf should have to do way more than physical appearance. Maybe your pretty, but how is your personality. But honestly dont worry too much about it.
2007-04-16 14:40:05 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋