I should have been born in the 1800`s mayby.I never had trouble finding women until this year.It`s trivial and confusing it must be an act of God to keep me away from all the divorsee`s wolves and wickedness.Everytime I get close and bring up the m word they want to go and their becoming like the men everywhere;just wanting a good time.
2007-04-16 06:57:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Careful with those sweeping statements.
Studies show that the best way to change a person's attitude is to change their behavior. So basically, the way you behave influences how you think.
So by making broad sweeping statements about all women.. blah blah blah. You are training yourself to think that way. Then before you know it, you are misogynistic and women will start to loath being around you.
2007-04-16 07:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Reformed Nice Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three problems with your point-of-view.
1. Women had a very limited choice in who they married in the 1800s. Honesty in men played little importance in marriage. Economics was the main factor, with the same love problems we still have today coming in a close second. Things were not that much different then than they are now.
2. I can't count how many times I've seen a woman say the same thing about a man. 9 times out of 10 the problem is the same: they are looking in the wrong places. They want an honest man, but they want a Brad Pitt even more. Make sure you are looking for the right woman in the right places. If you are not, then THAT explains your problem.
3. What is different now compared to before? You admit that you used to not have a problem finding a woman. That suggests something has changed. Identify the change, and you'll be able to find a solution.
Make sure you are not rushing these women. The "M" word is all find and dandy, but it is not exactly something you want to be bringing up on the first date. Get to know these women better and let them get to know you before you start trying to force something permanent to happen. It is not the 1800s. Her dad is not going to make her marry you. This is actually a good thing. When you do find the right girl, she will love you for the right reasons. We're lucky to live today!
2007-04-16 07:06:43 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but it just appears that they don't want YOU! You sound like one of those desperate types that fall in love after the second date and start talking about marriage, which will scare off most people. You may not be that good in bed either. A woman will usually give you a couple shots at pleasing her, if you aren't getting it done, most decide to move on.
To solve your problem:
1) Stop acting so desperate
2) Take it slow
3) Make sure you do what ever it takes to give yoru lady an orgasm!
2007-04-16 07:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is still plenty of women that want an honest man!! Maybe you are saying the M word a little to soon. I think also there is alot of women scorned. That's when they decide to just look for a good time. And why shouldn't they. All in all , there is A lot of fish, so don't worry, she'll come along. Good luck!!
2007-04-16 07:04:38 · answer #4 · answered by moomers81 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-04 03:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey these are times we are living and god do not act in a way like that he gives us free will now he will and can choose a mate for you but you have to allow him to do so pray on it she will come along their our women out here who is looking for what you want be patient
2007-04-16 07:04:38 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you just have not found the right woman yet. Trust me lots of woman look for an honest man!!! I looked for years before I found mine. So keep looking she is out there somewhere.
2007-04-16 07:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Vonvon 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women can sense desperation. If you are so keen to commit to marriage then maybe youre hiding something. Like maybe you have erection problems or something and make up for it by offering marriage after the first date?!!
2007-04-16 07:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, u didn't ask me to marry u! and i'm lookin' 4 a honest man. so give me your name, number and address and email address sweetheart! but if u r honest why the egyptian head! uhmmm?
2007-04-16 07:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by joanie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, girls seem to like the assholes, us good guys aren't being given a chance at all.
2007-04-16 07:00:05 · answer #10 · answered by Jordan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋