i like children but i dont want any.i think it's too much of a hassle. i mean,you have more problems than blessings.my boyfriend wants some, and he's trying to convince me, but there's no chance of me giving in.so?
2007-04-16 06:55:01 · 14 answers · asked by elsie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
If you do not want children than just don't have any. If you don't want them and end up having one just because you may end up unhappy. At one point in my life I did not even like kids and said I would NEVER have children. I am now a mother of two beautiful girls that I love more than anything in the world, and I LOVE being a mom. Stranger things have happened, you mat actually change your mind down the road. But explain to your bf that you don't want to have kids right now. Some people are just not built to raise children.
Just for the record I do not have more problems than blessings. Children are the greatest blessings in life. What is a better blessing than children... money and a big fancy house..?? Don't think so. But you are entitled to your own opinion. I feel like there is nothing better than having a family to come home to every day that loves you. I enjoy life better with my hubby and girls!
2007-04-16 07:03:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? chances are you still have your whole life ahead of you. I have two children, and while I wouldn't give them up for the world, I wish I had had the choice to wait much longer! Children are a blessing, but they are ALOT of work, 24/7, there is no break, aside from the occaisional babysitter. Wait on it! If you have to ask, you already knwo the answer- besides, you should be talking weddings first! (not judging you if that just isn't your thing!)
2007-04-16 14:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by msjaj05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider kids a hassle, then don't have them. I am a a parent, and I can't stand seeing people who are constantly annoyed with their kids.
2007-04-16 14:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by RCJ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So don't, and be clear about it. No one should have a baby if they aren't 100% committed and excited. Your BF needs to get his head out of the clouds and understand that you're not changing your mind.
2007-04-16 13:59:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So then make it really clear to him you don`t want any and then go from there..If you don`t want to have kids then you should not be forced to...(Although you might change your mind when you get a little older)
2007-04-16 14:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by bad kitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider kids a hassle you don't need any!
2007-04-16 14:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by CHAE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldnt. Move on. Sounds like you've already decided.
2007-04-16 13:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by lillilou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that children are problems then don't have any, Cause i don't want your problems becoming my problem
2007-04-16 16:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by Hi 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If there is no chance of u giving in then I think you have your answer.
Good Luck.
2007-04-16 14:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by Super Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me your minds made up you dont want them but also sounds like u might to ask this question
2007-04-16 14:02:39 · answer #10 · answered by babystarr00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋