2007-04-16 06:51:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on how it ended. I am good friends with one of my ex's and have met his new girlfriend. We broke up mutually and always said we would let each other know about new gf/bf.. i am actually quite good friends with his new girlfriend.. she knew from the start that we used to date and that there was no chance of us getting back together. We are to good friends for that
2007-04-16 06:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I don't know how old you are but here is my opinion, my thoughts, my experiance. First my experiance, I have been married for 11 years, have been witht he same man for 17 years. When we first started living together he would tell me about this girl he dated in school. Also that maybe she had a kid that might be his. I was ok with that. She had come to visit with her family or by herself up from Fl. I got along with her and I had no problems or any sort of feelings that there was anything going on between my husband and her. When our first child was age 7 and our 2nd child was 3 We went to Fl stayed at her house with her family we also went to Universal studios, just my family and her (long story). We had a great time. I have never once t hought that there was any thing else goign on between them. Now my thought, I feel that if you know deep in your heart that she is with you and has no problem showing affection towards you around other people then there shouldnt be a problem. There is such thing as stayign friends. It is not all drama and soap opera out there in the real world. If you trust her then you will be fine meeting him. GO for it, if you feel uncomfortable or feel he is beign to "friendly" with her then tell her you are not comfortable with that. Again it is a thought or opion how ever you want to take it. Good luck, just hink you could earn a new friend.
sammie
2007-04-16 07:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem with... if it was just meeting no, if it was a friendship that was expected to go on while we were dating and i had to see her often, yes mucho big problem, not because of the guy, but women are catty and conniving. The ex girl is a threat, and no matter what a guy says ALL women go thru the i had him and i want him phase after breakups, even if it only lasts a few seconds once in a while. Do the new girlfriend a favor and keep the ex where she should be.. in the past. a friendly hello on the street isnt bad tho.
2007-04-16 06:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to meet my bf's ex with whom he is still friends. It's actually his very first gf. I am not happy that they are friends. Just because I have never seen her and I am jealous whenever he talks to her, even though it's only once a month. He thinks that my attitude is ridiculous and he says that he loves me and they are just friends but I am still jealous. I can't help it, my bf's cute. And also she has her own family now and they were together like long time ago. She lives in a different state too.
But I am still jealous. I think it's gonna stay like that unless I gotta chance to meet her.
2007-04-16 07:01:35 · answer #4 · answered by ilzjux 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it's age, perhaps it's experience, but I wouldn't have a problem at all meeting my guy's ex. And I'd be perfectly fine with it if they remained friends. I actually have a lot of respect with people who are able to maintain friendships with exes, as I've only been able to maintain friendships with two over the years.
2007-04-16 07:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to act cool. I'd meet her and try not to let it bother me that you're friends...but somewhere just below the surface lurks the ugly green monster: jealousy. Knowing that my boyfriend was friends with his ex would make me kind of nervous...I wouldn't like it too much. I would prefer that he had no contact with his ex at all...but I don't like to be controlling either.
2007-04-16 06:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would have a problem. If she's so great to be friends with, why aren't they still together. My now ex-boyfriend and his ex were friends (no problem) until they became friends with benefits. Once I dumped him, she didn't want him either. Now he wants to come back, but heck no! Tell him to choose and be firm about it. Trust me.
2007-04-16 07:00:55 · answer #7 · answered by Aneshia J 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i was actually in this situation already with my current boyfriend, except they werent really a couple they just used to messed around and are friends now. at first i didnt like the fact that they were friends , but my bf told me once i meet her that i will see there is nothing there and feel better. so i did and me and her got along really well and we are also friends now :0) so i hope my outcome helps you out
2007-04-16 06:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by LISA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my guy's ex. She seems pretty nice. I think she broke his heart many moons ago.
Yeah they are friends and I don't care that much. Maybe a tad jealous, but I know she'd never want him, so it doesn't matter that much. Plus she lives on the other side of the country now.
2007-04-16 06:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah i would have a problem...cause now i am the one that is with him...and thats pretty cool if they are friends..
2007-04-16 06:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋