How do I walk up to a girl that I've just seen for da 1st time n tell her tht I like her n I think shes sexy

Question

How do I build up the courage and confidence to walk on over to a girl and talk to her and tell her how I feel about her and how she's the hottest girl I've ever seen? What should I do or not do? And what if there is someone sitting next to her what then? Do I still try and walk over to her and tell her how I feel?

Answer 1

The most important thing though is that you do go up to her and start talking. Don't just give up because of some lame excuse like someone else is there, she was talking to that boy, or she is just way out of my league. I used to be shy like that until I got fed up with myself one day. I couldn't talk to a hot girl for nothing, didn't know what to say, how to start it, nothing. After I turned around and looked at myself though, I realized I was just being a pu$$y (sorry for the language but that is what I was). So I started to change that as high as I could shoot. If I was in a bar or a party, I would just walk right up to the hottest girl there and try to strike a conversation. I had to repeat to myself hundreds of times beforehand though, "If you say something stupid, WHO CARES". I failed over and over and then failed again. In fact I can only remember getting one girls number like that, and she never answered when I called. BUT and I emphasize the BUT, now if I want to go up to a girl, I don't feel so ashamed anymore, I've realized falure is only an opinion and it is not permanent. You can't put all your hope in one girl because that will only lead to dissapointment if you fail. But if can bring yourself to trying without a set goal or at least a really low one, like having a sound come out when your mouth opens, then you can't fail yourself and at the end of the worst scenario, you still have great experience.

Answer 2

There is no right answer because it depends on the girl. Some girls might like it whereas some might prefer a more subtle approach. Some will really like it if you take charge and be blunt and confident. But some might see that as being obnoxious and prefer you to be gentlemanly about it. I just say be yourself- if you are not the type of guy to do that comfortably she will probably be able to tell, so maybe just approach her and ask how her night is going.
To give you some more specific examples (based on what I prefer): I don't like it when I am having an involved conversatioin with my friend and a guy wants to interrupt it- I am generally out to be with my friends not to be chatted up all night. I do like it when a guy is funny and original when he approaches me. I do like it when a guy is to the point and direct but is a fine line there with being sleazy and I don't like that because then he is just a player and saying the same old line every other guy uses.
So sorry but there is no right answer- you could try the same approach with 2 different women and get completely different responses.
So just be yourself and then when you do get a response it will be from someone who really is interested.

Answer 3

Wink and smile at her a few times. See if she gives u an opportunity to approach....like maybe she hangs back like she's waitin on somethin.

If she shows the signs she's interested, then go talk to her. But don't blurt out stuff like "you're hot" or nothing like that. Just talk normal and light at first.

After a couple of times of talkin just relaxed sorta, then u can tell if she's goin for u or not. That's when u should maybe ask her out. Then u can say stuff like she's beautiful, attractive, etc. Try not to say "hot" or "sexy" cuz that sounds sorta tacky like u are just after her cuz of looks or havin sex or somethin.

Answer 4

Never tell a woman she is sexy . For this is of no good. You imply that you are not much interested in her mentality nor spirituality or morals, just her physical attributes which is no good!
Do not tell her how you feel keep these things to your self. Simply asked her is it possible that you could get to know her. chat with her and to learn her also she then have the opportunity to learn of you.

Answer 5

I would start talking to her first. Start with topics that aren't about either of you (like current events) and eventually progress to hobbies. If she is "the hottest girl ever" then she probably doesn't have a lot of conversations with guys that don't center around her or him (or a combination of both).

Answer 6

First get everyone away from that area and then (don't think of something negative ,but positive) then start telling her your name and where you come from ask her stuff and then you tell her that she is hot and i like you and all that stuff but the most thing you need is courage

Answer 7

dude im a girl and here is what i think.... if i was sitting down and someone that i a have never met comes up to me and he says that im sexy then ill feel flatered, and curious about the guy... but if he alks up to me and syas that he loves me than ill totally freak out... so it all depens on what you say ... be sure to be nice also in the way you say things because also they coud take that in a yuk, perve so yeah like i said be nice....

Answer 8

well dont be to straight forward because some girls hate that.. just be cool and relax.. tell her that she was pretty or beautiful.. and start a conversation.. make her laugh.. make sure the conversation is a live the whole time.. make her smile.. then maybe ask for her number or give her your number.. then after that things should take off..

Answer 9

It seems to me the way you "feel" about her is horny...and you don't want to start there.

You don't feel anything else, so just start talking to her about stuff and have a chat. Don't think you have to have her NOW. She'll be around.

Answer 10

Dude, tell her in front of someone, I mean, it just reinforces how you feel about her, anything can be said in private, because no one else heard it, but when other people