Does lonliness make you cry?

Question

I feel depressed that a certain someone hasn't communicated with me for a while.

I don't want to email or call the person in question. I'd rather have it this way than be the first to break the ice and be given the cold shoulder thereafter.

Please, tell me what I can do. I'm tired of waiting. It's been a week. It makes me cry for no reason, 'cos it's not like I HAVE to talk to this person either. We aren't even on the same page on most matters. Yet, I feel happy when the person is around.

What do I do now?

Answer 1

What i think you should do since u and this person are not that close, is just let go already! its not like u and this person are dating from what you are telling me and what i am reading i am gathering that there is a constant arguing when u two are together. take this as a sign and do not pursue this matter any further. Move On and find somebody else!

Answer 2

One week?> Who is this person? are you officially romantically involved? just friends??

You seem afriad of being rejected again, and you're crying about it. Does this person know how you feel about them??

I would say start jogging, great for health, fitness, and well being.. gits rid o' that depression. I also watch dr. phil while i'm on my treadmill. That bald son of a ***** has got some smarts in his noodle. there was a married couple where the wife wasn't getting any attention from the husband. And dr.phil's like "Babygirl! You've got to get ahold them reigns on your marriage AND your LIFE!" Then he did a back flip ollie-oop slam dunk in his studio and everyone was so happy. I stopped jogging and adjusted my shorts. It was such a great moment.

And unless you're crazy, there's nothing wrong with dropping a voicemail "hello, how've ya been?" sort of thing. It's only been a week. sheesh..

Hope this helps!
--if not, there's always Scientology.

Answer 3

Keep moving down the road of life/ its ok. a week is good 3 wks is better. it will lessen, hes moved on------accept it. force your self to meet some others even if on line. Do one thing everyday to move on. Make a list. Go to movies, go to coffee shop and say hi around, join chess game. Be friendly, smile. be a good listener, get out volunteer. Start running, or biking, deveop yourself, bump into a good looking man accidently losing your balance! Do the list daily, youll see it works.

Answer 4

Some thing in you is keeping you from calling that person.You know what and why,so get out more and the answer will make itself clear soon.Get on with your life, that's not the first person you can live without.Good luck

Answer 5

This sounds dangerous to me.
Everyone I've known who had a similar issue, attempted suicide. If you are crying but too afraid to reach out to talk to someone, you need a professional to help you.
Get help.

Answer 6

i never ever get lonely because i enjoy my own company the best! but other people's loneliness really makes me cry and very sad . it sounds like you have a really strong attachment to this person and need to look at the deeper feelings and what to do about them.

Answer 7

omg ive been going through something like this for like 7 months...except the situation is a lil different from yours...umm your gonna just have to either wait for them to come around...or IF you cant stand the pain anymore... you can ask them whats up between you too...and see what happens from there!

Answer 8

meet more people, don't stress over it. if he comes he comes if he doesnt then dont try too hard. remember to be a little hard to get or he might take you for granted

Answer 9

I think you should ask yourself, "Would you feel happier talking to him than waiting?"

Answer 10

I guess cry some more.