We've been together 6 years. I'm 26 and and my BF is 31. About a week ago I found out my boyfriend was talking dirty to this girl that lives close by. She's only 18. Anyhow he was saying how he'd like to screw her. I confronted him about it he said he was just joking with her and he it wasn't a big deal. He said he was just bored and having some fun!! From a guys point of veiw, do you think it's a big deal or should I let it go?
2007-04-16 06:01:32 · 36 answers · asked by Jamie M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find another boyfriend
2007-04-16 06:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by ffperki 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Simply my opinion, but I don't think it's appropriate for your boyfriend to be talking dirty to an 18 year old. Since you've been together for 6 years I wouldn't do anything too drastic, but I would definitely let him know that you don't think this is appropriate and he better cut it out (assuming that is how you feel).
How would he feel if you were talking dirty to a 40 year old guy? I mean it's your relationship, but you might want to define what you want and expect from each other.
2007-04-16 06:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by fanodabuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie thats no longer controlling. he's your boyfriend until eventually you 2 have an association to have open relationships he expects the in elementary words sound asleep you have to be doing is with him. If the shoe replaced into on the different foot ought to you experience free to entice close he's sound asleep round. perhaps thats your type yet you extra acceptable clue in to his area he would not imagine an identical as you. imagine you want to sit and confer with him about this.
2016-12-04 03:20:09 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say let it go for now, with the understanding that a lot of men are, to put it bluntly, pigs. Keep an eye on this guy. It doesn't sound like he's above cheating on you.
2007-04-16 06:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Oxhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most guys at 31 would love to be with an 18 year old but he might have just been messing around.. but i would not let him get to close to her.. in the mean time keep him happy in a sexual way.. dont let him stray....
2007-04-16 06:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy
2007-04-16 06:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by notniuq83 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a big a deal, you should dump him right on the spot. The guy a few answers above me has it right, if he wants to talk dirty to someone, that someone should be you.
2007-04-16 06:06:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jordan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He must think your a big idiot. Ya hes trying to get some young p#ssy, yea! So you hang on, why is that, are you ulgy!He's a player and is getting it on the side, soon he will throw your clothes and you out and ball her in your bed. You deserve it, cause he sees you as stupid.
2007-04-16 06:13:23 · answer #8 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on if he has did it before! if yes confront him, if no tell him and try to make sure it dont happen again! i have messed with ppls minds on her doing the same thing! i just do it for a laugh!!
Do what you think is right!!
2007-04-16 06:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by FREDD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with what you feel, not what people say on here.
Personally, there is no way I would talk to another girl like that, and if I did then I expect to get dumped.
2007-04-16 06:05:12 · answer #10 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If the girl says no, he is joking and just messing around. If the girl says yes, the joke is on you and he is going to be with this chick.
2007-04-16 06:04:51 · answer #11 · answered by bluechick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋