okay, heres the situation.
A loves B
B loves A
B loves C
B likes D
C and D are in a relationship
A and B are not
A and B are friends with benefits
A is a jehovah's witness. premarital sex is bad.
A feels guilty about third base with B
A and B feel akward just being friends so they become FWBs again.
B does not like this
A doesn't want to be in a relationship because his life is hectic.
B disagrees. they are FWBs so it might as well be a relationship
A says she's manipulating him to be in a relationship when he doesn't want to
B gets guilty and depressed and stops communication.
B starts to express love to C.
C talks to D
C and D would like B in thier relationship
B is still attached to A
C is me
whats the most ethical way to deal with this? i really like B, but i'm not really sure what action to take. i have one idea but i want to brainstorm more options and gain a bit of advise.
are there any good but not ethical way to deal with this?
2007-04-16 05:01:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A person who claims to care for a Jehovah's Witness would never encourage the Jehovah's Witness to commit what the Witness knows and feels to be "serious sin".
(1 Corinthians 6:18-20) Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body, but he that practices fornication is sinning against his own body. 19 What! Do YOU not know that the body of YOU people is [the] temple of the holy spirit within YOU, which YOU have from God? Also, YOU do not belong to yourselves, 20 for YOU were bought with a price. By all means, glorify God in the body of YOU people
2007-04-16 05:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by achtung_heiss 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let's face it B is a total slut you can't trust her because she is not capable of making a commitment. That is why B continues to persue A. She knows she will never have a complete relationship with A because he's a busy Jehova's witness who doesn't want to be in a relationship. So she is attracted to A because she knows there is no chance for success and real emotional committment.
If you were happy in your relationship with D you wouldn't even be talking to B. You know B will destroy your relationship with D dont you.
So here are your choices:
1 if you want to keep a long term relationship with D forget about B
2 If you want to be with B just for the fun and sex and you don't mind losing D then go right ahead. But get ready for the rollercoaster ride cause this will only end in disaster!
Personally it's too complicated for me .. I'd probably just hook up with E and say F it all!
2007-04-16 05:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'd say that A and B prolly don't really "love" each other. they just don't want to give what they think they have(you know what i mean right) if you and D have a good thing, i'd be slow to add somone else to the mix that has this kinda problems.
also do you know A? will this put you in bad with him? how old are you all anyway? it might make more sence if I know that.
truth be told, I don't think there is a good way to deal with this. make sure that D is cool with B joining you or you all might be looking for new letters to date.
hoping the best for you all.
2007-04-16 05:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is my take on things:
ABC&D all deserve to have their skulls knocked together. what the hell is a friend with benefits?! if ya'll are screwing around how the hell can you profess to be in a serious relationship? first off, A&B need a reality check, C&D need professional help and the whole lot of you need counseling. and by the way, when A&B start mixing, C&D need to back the hell off, a threesome is ****** up and in the end one of you pathetic letters will suffer and one of you will get jealous. if ya'll really are that troubled you don't need to seek help from yahoo! GO SEE A SHRINK ASAP!
2007-04-16 05:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mickey mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...ok well C and D want B in the relationship so go for it. If B is willing then so be it.....Maybe A will decide he doesnt want to be a jehovahs witness and you all can start the alphebet together! Maybe B will get over A with C and B
2007-04-16 05:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
where the rest of the alphabet and two A needs to leave B alone so B can sleep wit C&D[at the same time if she wants]Then B will come crawling back to A wit STD'S
2007-04-16 05:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... you all are f***ed up. How about since C & D would like B in their relationship but B is attached to A you invite A to be in ur relationship also and have a 4-some????
2007-04-16 05:07:02 · answer #7 · answered by Chiquita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're C, what does A have to do with anything if you want D and B in your relationship. Deal with B. If B likes A, then B can't be in your relationship. So just C (you) and D be together.
2007-04-16 05:05:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a train leaves one station travelling north bound at 45 mph and a train leaves another station travelling southboud at 55 mph how long before they collide?
who effin CARES
2007-04-16 05:04:10 · answer #9 · answered by stopit! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...confusing.
you don't want in a relationship that has that much involved and that has more than 2 people involved. a relationship should be with A and B...not A through Z
2007-04-16 05:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by Samantha R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋