I went to dinner with this girl the other night, we've known each other a long time and are friends and I've been able to tell her anything. But the other night I was telling her that I went out on a date earlier in the week and that I have decided to give up dating. She spent the rest of dinner in total silence and kind of unhappy. Did I do something wrong, why did her attitude change so much when I said those things?
2007-04-16 05:00:55 · 20 answers · asked by thebeej 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She likes you and wants to be with you. She's probably frusterated and maybe even hurt that you don't see her in a romantic way and that you are overlooking what she thinks could be something special and great.
2007-04-16 05:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by GoodJob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think u did anything 2 wrong but scince u were out with her she might of gotten jealous girls get jealous easily (i am a girl i would know) but also u were on a date with her (out whatever) and u said that u had given up dating so she probably took it efensivly and thought that u didn'twant to go out with her anymore
2007-04-16 12:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahahaha, ok let me think. there is a border line feeling of like for you. it isn't that hard to see that the girl likes (or did like) you and you blew it, heres a Q for you. how many times have you two had dinner? together, alon just the two of you? is it possible that she could have considered that a date? ok that was like three Q's but your getting my point. she could have thought that you two were on a date, then you put your foot in your mouth. oh when well men learn?
2007-04-16 12:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by eskimo rocker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She was holding out hope that you would eventually see her as a woman, not just a friend and you've crushed it. She probably has deep, strong, romantic feelings for you that she has yet to articulate. Maybe she doesn't know how to tell you. You should sit down and have a heart to heart with her. That might make her open up to you. p.s. rent "My Best Friend's Wedding". You'll understand. good luck
2007-04-16 12:09:33 · answer #4 · answered by Shelly E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably has feelings for you and the minute you started talking to her about your date earlier and that you are not open to dating anymore just confirmed to her you are NOT attracted to her and neither would you consider her as a 'possible' girlfriend!
2007-04-16 12:05:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well ... I would have construed it as your saying, "I went on a date last week, and I REALLY liked the girl, so I'm not going to date anyone else" ... in other words, you were dissing her in a way.
2007-04-16 12:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by Duckie314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have to ask that question? you were on a date. you said I'm done dating. she got quite. SHE THOUGHT YOU WERE ON A DATE. she wanted to be on a date. ask her out again and apologize about the comment. make it up to her with a nicer date.
2007-04-16 12:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by night dancing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you and wants to be more than friends. Dating someone that you have been friends with can be tricky though. Do you want to risk dating and ruining your friendship if it doesn't work out?
2007-04-16 12:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude....you went to DINNER with a girl...thats a date...if you wanted to keep her in the friend zone take her to lunch...even then its more like a half date
2007-04-16 12:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thought tha ya'll were on a date and felt hurt that you didn't appear to think of it as such or of her in a romantic way.
2007-04-16 12:11:00 · answer #10 · answered by Vanilla Latte 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋