I'm 22, my GF cheated on me and I found out and broke up w/ her. Its been 3 weeks, she's cried a lot and said she's sorry a million times.... I still am not sure if I can forgive her.. but she wants to hang out later today, should I have sex with her until I find another girl? Then dump her again, and say "you just been punked, beeeatch?"
2007-04-16 04:41:09 · 27 answers · asked by Ronny W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it just use protection ......revenge sex can be good and exciting
2007-04-16 05:13:30 · answer #1 · answered by metallicalady2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, because that would lower you to her standards and she might just send the word out that you did that to her and it might make life miserable for you in the relationship department. this might sound a bit juvenile right now but "TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT" stay away from her, if you get back with her or meet with her to hang out, it is sending a message that you don't really care that she cheated and she might think it is aninvitation to other things, keep your morals high, if you do this thing you have in mind your conscience will bug you after, might feel good doing it but in the long run you will definitely feel like a pile of dog poop when things come to it. Be smart, get over her, let her know you don't want anything to do with her, give your self time to get over it and MOVE ON!!
2007-04-16 04:57:26 · answer #2 · answered by Mickey mouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aside from what that would say about your character you would be exposing yourself and your future girlfriends and someday maybe wife to whatever she caught or is carrying from the other guy and whatever the last 6 girls he slept with have and the last 6 guys they slept with. I'm guessing of course but odds are this guy was no virgin. Is revenge worth risking your life and health? More and more STD's are becoming antibiotic resistant. MSN had a news story on that this weekend see www.cdc.gov/std/Gonorrhea/arg/stdfact-resistant-gonorrhea.htm . And then there is the chance that she might get pregnant or say she was and you would have to deal with DNA testing, court orders, and possibly 18-21 yrs of child support.
2007-04-16 04:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by A F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either be a man and leave her, no revenge and no hate, or be a man and take take her back. If you want to act like a 13 year old girl (no offense meant, girls) then go ahead an act like a child.
Playing games is for 12 year olds. It's easy to wish people harm when they have hurt you, but being an adult means just moving on.
I was hurt extremely badly by my ex-gf and ex-bf. They did and said things I consider unforgivable. I could hurt them extremely badly by simply letting people know the three of us were dating, but I haven't and don't.
I live by my own ethics, not stooping to the pettiness of others. It's part of being an adult.
2007-04-16 04:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Ronnie, be a gentlemen ok. Sex does not rule you. I ADMIRE YOUR honesty so far-- thats good for her and you. But take the next step in life and realize theres more for you to discover about your self. Develop your spiritual side for a while, join a youth group get to know some christian young woman. It wouldn't be so shallow and regretful for you to meet beautiful thoughtful girls. Don't do the same old thing try something new dude.
2007-04-16 04:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG this was so funny! No don't do that because she might be a bit on the crazy side and you don't want the drama...let her a$$ go and ignore her. The best revenge is to ignore her because no matter who you are being ignored hurts as humans we crave attention especially from someone we care about
2007-04-16 04:47:22 · answer #6 · answered by Superfly21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I think that sounds like an awful thing to do. If you have no interest in trying to fix things then don't lead her on. Making her feel the same way you do or perhaps worse will not fix anything. Walk away if you don't think it's worth it, but don't purposely hurt someone else.
2007-04-16 04:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by becky m 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ha ha! that'd be really funny. at first then it'd suck. ok think if a chick did that. guys all around the world would be Pissed with a capital P. no one likes to toyed like that. so if you give me a reason why only guys can do that and why its not such a big deal. then i'll laugh with you...at her.
2007-04-16 04:48:20 · answer #8 · answered by kikiLicious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't stoop down that low bro. She messed up and shes paying the price. Its only up to you for to forgive and forget, or just leave her the hell alone (which is what i would do). You deserve someone better than that bro. good luck
2007-04-16 04:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Troy Mac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha it's mean, but she cheated on you. She can't expect to be treated like a queen when she's sleeping around.
Definitely find someone better.
2007-04-16 04:44:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gracie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋