2007-04-16 00:58:38 · 15 answers · asked by Span 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It was surreal. Everything happened so fast, but when I first saw my son, a million thoughts and feelings came to my head at once, and in affect my brain & everything just shut down. I just fixated on him with my watery eyes.
I wanted to be with him forever, but I also had been up for 40 hours at that time. He was born 9/3/06.
2007-04-16 01:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Mickey Mouse Spears 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I suppose I am not a normal person but I did not love my baby straight off. I did not even want to hold him. I had just gone through my worst experience ever and the thing that caused it was being shoved at me with everyone gooing over it, I thought if you're so taken with it then you hold it. Thankfully those feelings didn't last. It was just me feeling understandably upset about what was supposed to be a beautiful moment that I could complete myself but couldn't do without a doctor reefing the baby right out of me, not to mention the epidural failed that some stoopid intern kept stuffing up and the oxytocics that were fed into me too fast bringing on contractions that just didn't stop straight away. I was justifiably upset and it took some time when the pain subsided to overcome. Then I was trying to love my baby through the episiotomy from hell which 17 years later still creeps back to haunt me. He was a gorgeous baby and I love him but my first feelings were not great.
2007-04-16 08:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Greatest Gift of God's Inventions. My #1 Reason/Purpose of Living. I feel so very sorry for ppl (men and women) that are medically unable or willingly choose not to be blessed with the birth of a child. It's a joy that is so overwhelming; I could never explain in strong enough word; just how extemely incrediblely strong and wonderful these feelings are.
2007-04-16 08:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt like it was the biggest miracle that can happen. To know that this little miracle was depending on me for absolutely everything was kind of overwhelming. I have never felt so much love towards another human being. Now I have two miracles and the feeling never goes away. You get a star for a great question that brought back some wonderful memories.
2007-04-16 08:07:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blessed by God with my role and family, life, happy, parental, over-whelmed with dad's other pages starting with those titled Aggressive Jealousy, Projection, and Exempt From My Own Roles and Behavior. Our sons are still stuck reading his top seller and as for me, I burned that book a long time ago so I wouldn't be forced and stuck reading the negative endless contents. We were parents that were unequally yoked and that almost cost me my spiritual connection with God.
2007-04-16 08:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by GoodQuestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh My...their simply isnt words to describe the feelings...at the moment of birth you can forgive anyone for just about anything...your whole world right at that moment is absolute bliss and perfect.
2007-04-16 08:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by shmoopyhw 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have two children and i was not prepared for them
we never planned on children and we were foolish..so i was not thrilled when my wife had children 13 months apart..and they were both blamed on me...my wife would not take responsibility..so i just ended up bailing out and letting her raise them...so i am not in contact with my children as i feel she set me up for this..sorry /..this is the truth..children don't always bring people together...its not a good reason for a relationship..you should love each other unconditionally before you start a family
2007-04-16 08:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the moment the baby is born it is a feeling that comes just out of the pit of your stomache . This overwhelming feeling of happines. that's how I felt when my boy was born so many years ago
2007-04-16 08:02:15 · answer #8 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was scared! somtimes i still am! i needed help knowing what to do-lamaze class helps teach how to have a baby, not what to do when they arrive! wheres the manual or owners guide??
2007-04-16 08:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by junebuggie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally AWESOME, unexplainable, it's like being in 7th heaven:)
2007-04-16 08:01:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋