2007-04-16 00:43:09 · 15 answers · asked by kiko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is 41 and i am 28
2007-04-16 18:31:28 · update #1
Yes.
2007-04-16 00:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, since you are going to be his new babysitter!!! Take my word for it, you will be the caretaker for the kids whether you want to or not. It is your life, but a young woman should marry a single man. (at least her first marriage--hopefully her last)
The honeymoon will be over before it ever starts. Kids can ruin a romantic night so easily. Not so bad when it is yours because you have made them together. Horrible when the exwife calls ranting and raving about how the two of you are raising them when they are with you!!!@! And never mind the child support payments!!!
2007-04-16 00:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how old you are. If you're not a teenager, then no, it's not pathetic. Just because he's divorced doesn't mean he's not a good guy. Shite happens, you know? And if you're willing to take on kids, good on you. Just be sure before you get involved, cos kids who have already been through a divorce don't need any extra baggage.
2007-04-16 00:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not pathetic. If you are at the right age, I'm sure there is no harm in having a crush on him, and so what if he has two kids, Loving is accepting... If it feels right to you, go for it. Just follow your gut and think wisely before you make any permanent decisions..;)
2007-04-16 00:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pathetic? Hell no, I dated a 69 year old woman. NOT for money neither. Am I pathetic? NO, you just can't help who you fall for.
Good Luck
2007-04-16 00:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a Man that lives accross my street that married a 17 yr old High School girl and he is 52...go figure!!
2007-04-16 00:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will discover love lower back (or it is going to discover you), yet don't be in a great hurry. Get mushy with your self as someone. study to love you first. your vanity is easily in ill restore after being cheated on. Get mushy on your own dermis and comprehend you're a good, useful person and don't should be mistreated (in any way) and which you do no longer might desire to have somebody to be finished or useful. Being too desirous to bounce on the instant into yet another relationship many times ends up in a rebound relationship, which will properly be surely improper for romance (as you're lonely and too desirous to no longer be on my own). supply it it sluggish and are not getting, or act, desperate. you have an excellent form of time. Love oftentimes merely happens, many times as quickly as we least assume it. merely cool your jets, get exhilaration from your infants, and get to correctly known your self as a useful person. I even have continually chanced on that the extra I found out to love me lower back, the extra beautiful I grew to become to others.
2016-12-29 15:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by madson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not pathetic! At least you know it's a crush!
2007-04-16 00:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Cleopatra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it's pathetic. check the guy out and see if he's any good for you.
2007-04-16 00:45:47 · answer #9 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just out of curiousity though, how much older?
2007-04-16 00:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋