I was married. I loved my husband and he really loved me. One day, I felt in love with another man. Left my husband. I could give up all I had for this man. I started to love him, really love. But he didn't love me. He just needed a woman to be the mother of his child and a woman to show his family and friends that he was "normal" finally. He is 40 years old and he has been never married. I choose for my husband, who loves me for who I am. Although I will love the other man for the rest of my life. I choose to be loved instead of loving somebody who could not give me love.
2007-04-16 00:39:27 · 8 answers · asked by Elaine B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think its because when we love too much we risk getting hurt very easily so it becomes hard for us to love and we prefer to be loved first, that way we are sure not to get hurt
2007-04-16 00:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your choices were made and that's what makes you happy. You sought it out and found it. There can't be a guilt of wanting to be happy and loved and give love too.
When two people meet each other and can share that gift extensively...it's in the bag sort of speak. If you found it...keep it Good Luck!!
2007-04-16 07:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because everyone wants to be loved by somebody. It is just human nature!!
2007-04-16 07:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a give and take , he just didnt love you , in order to be loved , you have to give love .
2007-04-16 07:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by dawn p 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing!
2007-04-16 07:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You pretty much answered your question. Your last sentence was great.
2007-04-16 07:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh...yeah, OK.
2007-04-16 07:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got what you deserved.
2007-04-16 12:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋