HELP ME!! Please!! I need advice!!?

Question

I found the boy of my dreams but it seems a little to good to be true!! We make out everyday but I feel for some reason he is cheating on me. How can I found out if he is cheating on me without spying on him. But to tell you the truth he probabaly isnt but I just want to be sure.

Answer 1

well you never know but it could just be supspicion and nothing real

Answer 2

If you think he is cheating on you and won't be satisfied until you know for sure, then by all means have a couple of your girl friends help you and keep watch on him 24/7 for the next month.

If he finds out and tells you so long then maybe you will be able to trust the next guy until such time as he gives you a reason to think he is cheating on you.

Answer 3

dear kit kat ,
what u have posed is a serious question...... but i dont wether its goinb to work or not >>> i have a little piece of advice ...... look even if u both make out everyday and if u feel he is ignoring u other than the time u r makin out ..... u come to knoe that he is using u .. other than this there is one more way but its risky kind of. when ever u fell like this its the best for u to go and talk to him...approach him and be frank about ur feelings.....why it is risky? bcoz for most of the times it breaks the relationshi[p btween u but if r polite enough in the way u ask he may be frank enough to tell u the truth >>>> but after this ur trust and his love for u grows >. so all the best hope u come out of ur troubles
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Answer 4

cheating is what you make of it. If he is looking at another girl is that considered cheating on you? If you have to worry about him cheating then you have some security issues which is a sign that you shouldnt get serious with anyone yet. You have to believe in your own self worth and believe whom ever is worth having you will do right by you without having to think twice and worrying. If you really want to know if you can trust him get your prettiest girlfriend to flurt with him and see how he reacts. Tell her to make him think you and your friend are fighting and she is trying to get revenge on you. He will show his true colors then.

Answer 5

What seems to be, too good to be true, means exactly what it says. I would use caution. If you are very young, I don't think this person is looking for a serious relationship. To find out if this person is cheating on you, when it comes, to important functions, that you want this person to attend, and this person, does not want to be your date! I think you will have your answer when that time comes.

Answer 6

showing distrust is the first pit fall honey.

yes being a pessimistic person myself u tend to question what seems too perfect, but do u really wanna spoil this allusion with his imperfections??

u have no proof of his cheating look for it could just bite u in the a.s.s with other info, so just take note off his behavior for now, &proceed once u have cause to.

Answer 7

well it is ether you think he is or he is not. any ways the point is you are goin to have to spy on him wheter you like it or not cause there is no onther way you can find out that if he is cheating or not any ways saying what has been said I think you should probably trust him befor calling him man or boy of my life

Answer 8

Get a friend to spy on him for you. Its good to be sure but not good if he finds out.

Answer 9

Lack of trust and mind games are the biggest killers of romance, thus you must ask him directly if you are the only one for him, if he doesn't look you directly in the eyes, and say yes without hesitation, then the possibilities are there that he's playing you...

Answer 10

If you believe that he is cheating with no evidence, you need counselling, because you have trust issues, and will ruin your relationship.

Answer 11

you r soooo gonna ruined it if you even try
if he is let him slip up but if u try to find out and he really isn't then you're screwed