So me and this guy,, we're in a relationship,, and we haven't been able to really hang out in around two weeks
he always says he misses me, and wants to hang with me, but then when it comes down to it he never follows through
which makes me wonder if he really does miss me or not, i mean it would be totally understandable if he didn't really but i wouldnt want him to tell me he did when he didn't
guys do you think he really misses me or is there some kind of hidden message? girls what do you think?
thanks soo much : )
2007-04-16 00:33:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and he kinda said i he loves me yesterday. . . i just dont know what to think
2007-04-16 00:39:54 · update #1
he has been pretty busy b/c he's going to costa rico on thursday and crashed his car which makes it hard to hang
2007-04-16 00:44:06 · update #2
i'm a guy and i'm in the same situation you are in with a girl. i thought about it alot and came to the conclusion that girls are impossible to understand so i'm not even going to think about it. maybe guys are the same way sometimes. i wouldnt try to look for hidden messages because assumptions about what a person is thinking can be hazardous. try to focus your mental energy on something else once in a while.
2007-04-16 00:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that if you really want to find out the answer to this you are going to have to make the first move and for this there are two options.
1.Make an effort to see him (above and beyond the call of duty), preferably not during work hours or a time when there are a lot of people around him. If he really appreciate the gesture then he is a keeper. If he is trying to get rid of you when he sees you, then he is a looser.
2.Call his bluff and say to him, "if you really miss me, why don't you make time for me?". Try to do this in a controlled manner, make sure you are cool calm and above all not venomous when you say this, otherwise you will be in a lot of hot water. If possible sound as coy as possible.
One way or another this must change or he must change :-)
2007-04-16 00:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by ama_lolipoplady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just making you expect great things from him. he just wants you to think that he's worthed coz eventhough you both didnt see each other for 2 weeks, he still says he misses you. but sister, if he really misses you, no matter the situation is, he will still find a way to hang out with you.. Go find someone who is more caring and worthed.. Hope you find your true prince..
2007-04-16 00:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by sossy_rakizta13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a loser. Life is too short to put up with that. Get rid of him and get someone who backs up the sweet words with the appropriate actions.
2007-04-16 00:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a fake, dump him, or he's too immature to share a relationship with you, either way guys or gals, people that really like you will be there for you:)
2007-04-16 00:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are chances that he's just fooling around, not being serious about the relationship.
2007-04-16 00:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by tefutefu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's one of two things..he's either shy...which is why when it comes down to it..he cuts out...
or he's a pretender.
the solution is simple..ask him why...
say to him...why do you say you'll hang with me..and then you don't?...
he might give you an honest answer.
2007-04-16 00:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont hold on if nothing's going to happen, if he's going to make plans, he needs to stick with them otherwise that "i love you" isn't going to mean anything....
2007-04-16 00:49:01 · answer #8 · answered by fhockeeshortee28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just giving you the run around forget him and move on
2007-04-16 00:37:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an opportunist to me
2007-04-16 00:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋