my bf told me recently his mother doesnt like the idea that he is dating me coz she losing her little boy. i am not trying to steal him away from her and she needs to see he is growing up. i cant talk to her about this as my bf's sister's bf has being trying to talk sense into the mother for 5 years about him dating her daughter what can i do
2007-04-16 00:07:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres nothing you can do. hopefully this woman will realize what is best for everybody in this situation eventually. take it all with a grain of salt and keep doing yo thang!
2007-04-16 00:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by fippypoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical mother-in-law problem.
You are not the only one.
No-one is good enough for momma's boy, and deep down she really hates losing him.
Point is: This is her issue. Not yours.
You don't have to tell her she isn't losing her son, but gaining a daughter. She should have the sense of realising that herself.
Check the internet on practical tips on dealing with this, because you are not alone.
2007-04-16 07:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by mgerben 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch out, if you marry him. She is going to be an overbearing mother-in-law------always trying to put her nose into your business.
I am the mother of a son and a daughter. I know that what he/she does is their own business. I love my children, but I know better than to try to control them. Their lives are their own.
2007-04-16 07:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go by bad examples.set your own. give her a feeling that she has 'gained' a person who can help her in making her lil boy grow into a real man.
2007-04-16 07:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by kalibilchi86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing your bf has to set his mom straight.
2007-04-16 07:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her if she receives a ransom note from you, then she can be worried that her son has been stolen.
2007-04-16 07:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to spend time with him and include her....such as just spending time talking at their home.
2007-04-16 07:11:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she will get over it
2007-04-16 07:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by Janice M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don"t worry all think this only it"s normal
2007-04-16 07:10:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋