We broke up on mutual terms, about 2 months ago. we were together for 2 years. he's now with another girl.
We've spoken over msn messanger once or twice, but just casual 'how have you been' convocation.
whenever he see's me around, he just looks away.
And last night, again, over msn messanger, i asked why he acts like he hates me. and he replied 'im not acting like i hate you. i dont even think about you anymore.'
I just dont understand why, as soon as we broke up, he acted off with me all of a sudden.
2007-04-15 23:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by catherine_5543 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we're both 16 years old
2007-04-15 23:44:57 · update #1
BOTH of you need to grow up and stop playing around.
2007-04-15 23:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men... the "other" species. He is probably just acting this way because he feels the same way you do. Hurt, confused, unsure of how to act around you. You said you were together two years, thats somewhat of a long haul.. I'm sure there are memories that will last and of course not be washed away in 2 months. Also, him being with another girl is a rebound mechanism. Men need to feel wanted. From my past relationships, I can tell you, and especially the length of yours, the other woman he is now seeing is there to fill the gap that you left. Just give him some time, which seems to be what he needs right now. If you two were meant to be, then things will fall into place. And if not, then you'll both need adequate time to get over each other and work through your own feelings before you try to be just friends.
2007-04-15 23:56:17 · answer #2 · answered by danirockstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the most confusing times for a teen. Ending a relationship, particularly one that lasted a long time can be very difficult.
For a lot of men, it's difficult to "be friends" with a woman, particularly a woman where there's been an intimate relationship. The temptation to do something is always there, so it's then easier to throw a switch and not think about her anymore.
He doesn't "hate" you. And, he probably does think about you once in a while. But, you're not dating anymore.
I know you've come to rely on being able to talk to him and it's frustrating that you don't have that anymore. This is all the more reason to open yourself up to new opportunities so that you can meet another guy.
Good luck!
2007-04-15 23:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am in the same situation as you: my ex is acting as he hates me. What I think? I think in both cases they were too secure of the fact that we loved them and that we would never be able to leave them. So now they are mad about us because they realized that we can live without them (maybe we are unhappy and all), but we survived withou being with them. I suffer a lot, but I know I can not come back to him. And he is mad about me because I left him. Of course he was too sure that I could be happy only by his side. That's why now is for him a big wound in his pride.I will have to learn to live without him. I know it.
2007-04-16 00:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by Elaine B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't hate you, he is just moving on, and so should you. You can not keep people on a string after you split, unless they want to be friends. He has a right not to want to be your friend. Respect his feelings.
2007-04-16 00:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why r u holding on
live yr life
he is over u and is not answerable to u.neither r u
its yr ego wanting to hold on. an ex is an ex
2007-04-15 23:51:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Over reaction and guilty conciousness.
2007-04-15 23:51:03 · answer #7 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that "additional details" was your answer.
you are both young. he hopped right into a new relationship pretty quick. just ignore him.
2007-04-15 23:49:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well think about it.....both of you are 16.....can you really expect him to be mature about it??
2007-04-15 23:50:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he just reckons you suck, at the moment thats all, in a day or two, things will be good.
2007-04-15 23:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋