How do you FEEL when somebody of a different level of atractiveness (UGLIER) hits on you?

Question

The best way to explain this is to work off a rating scale. If you are a number "8" female in the looks department and a "5" or lower has a crack at you, do you feel negative emotions towards the "lower" categorized person?

Do you feel repulsed and think thoughts like "does this guy seriously think he has a chance on me" etc.

And do you also treat these people as an ego boost so that you feel more confident of going for people around your own level?

Answer 1

Well i have different reactions. for some I'm thinking "U must be kidding me" others "Oh how cute, u flirting with me??" others" U are dismissed" others" lets see whats he got.."

the thing is, it all depends on what he said with that one crack, &what he does with my slight pause.

I dont find it repulsive if a less than my avareage appoaches me, somethimes yess it could boost my confidence.

I'm indifferent or intrigued &that principle carries within me weather i meet a hot guy or a less attractive one

I've treated 10/10 men like trash based on the sh*t they've said.

what level of men have i dated: 7s (balance between intellect &looks) what am i..LOL matter of opinion, but i think I'm a 7 too.

Answer 2

I think you're better off not obsessing about looks. First of all, beauty/attractiveness is in the eye of the beholder. So, it's not terribly accurate to assume that a "5" in one person's eye is a "5" to everyone.

Moreover, women who are obsessed with their own looks rarely make good company. So, if she's beautiful to you, perhaps you should simply ask her out to see what happens. If she's "repulsed," then there's a good chance that she's immature, a bi*** or a combination of the two. Either way, that's not someone you want to be taking on a date.

When two people connect, if it's based on beauty, it won't last. When two people connect because of a personality match, those relationships are a lot more meaningful.

Good luck!

Answer 3

i wouldnt treat it as a ego boost. because what good does it do me to think that i have someone less attractive than me hitting on me. if she thinks i like her that would give her an ego boost. i would be repulsed at first, but you start to think about it for a few days and maybe its not so bad. and then you see this person again and you get repulsed again. it's really just more of an annoyance. if the person is really cool, even if they are ugly, they can slide by possibly. but bad breath will get in the way of any close contact. bad breath is way worse than just being ugly.

Answer 4

I would think good for him has the guts to come upto me and asked me out, but thats just me people are different and some people will think they are above everyone else and think"how dare he" but you should know what this girl is nice. If you are attracted to her she must have a niec personality too and not just good looks, do you ever think she may think she is a 5 and she may well be but her personality turns her into an 8. personality is evrything after this first date and i believe what keeps the relationship going, as looks will fade but you will saty you forever.

Answer 5

I feel flattered. But I would never treat someone like that. Sounds Corny but I go for people who i admire and i know. People that are friendly towards me.

Answer 6

People like this have already found someone that they can be happy with.

THEM SELF

Answer 7

Why would you categorize people? Do you do this for skin color too? Can't we all just be people that are judged for themselves?

Answer 8

people like that are shallow. i'm surprised anyone even looks their way.

Answer 9

LOL, even ugly folks need love to.

Answer 10

???? I don't put people in categories or levels.
That's just rude.