I cried and tried everything I could do to keep her saying that I will change and promise and to just give me one last chance but she said the fight is out of her. She wants some time apart and I have to respect that and I will. She says that she wants time to explore and have fun and does not know if she wants a relationship right now and so we downgraded to friends. I did not realize how much I love her until now and would do anything for her in a heart beat. She says that I am a great guy that is smart, good looking, and funny. If I give her time, how much time is long enough, or should I try to get her back now but she said she does not want to use the friends and being smothered. what to do??? Should I let her call me or should I check in from time to time? Once a month, once every few months or what? I want her to be happy in life and would just wish she could give me another chance. I want to prove to her that I can change, all I want is a chance, thats all.
2007-04-15 23:40:49 · 9 answers · asked by Ryan R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her call you BUT don't stop your life waiting for her to call you. Don't obsess over the situation, if it happens, it will happen. Start living without her.
Read your other question........you need to GET AWAY from her and CHANGE YOUR LIFE for yourself! Why are you spending money you don't have? No one your age should be that far in debt. Your relationship with her and how you act when you are with her is DESTROYING your life.
2007-04-15 23:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, taking time apart might be good for both parties. its better to think about it thoroughly and clearly before getting involve in a relationship. if she really loves you, giving her some time is worth it. she might realise that she misses you and cannot live without you. if she does not like you, [touch wood] it is better to not get serious at all. otherwise, both parties will get hurt in the end.
maybe you can ask her how long she needs to think about it. agree on it and ask her if she is ready. if you really love her and cherish her, try to do something to win her back. make her think that you are the guy for her. but you MUST NOT pressure her.
2007-04-16 07:12:10 · answer #2 · answered by dolphin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in your shoes a few times and i am sorry to say this to you. She is looking for some one else or might have found some one by now. I know that it is tough and you are hurting but hang in there. Over a little bit of time you will heal and move on.
2007-04-16 07:02:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's pretty much written the relationship off. giver her the time and space she asked for and treat the next gf better, then this lesson won't be wasted.
you need to still maintain your promises to be better even if she is over you, be patient and she may see that you really changed and give you a second chance, but the odds are that it is over.
2007-04-16 06:46:45 · answer #4 · answered by onlinedreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem with many guy/girls in relationships. They don't appreciate what the have until they lose it. Then it is too late. Try next time to be more sensitive to the girl's feelings, wants, and needs. Hate to say it, but you have already blown this one. Best to just leave her alone.
2007-04-16 06:45:57 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants time apart let her have it, but the next step is hers move on with your life, chances are you are through usually time apart is when someone wants the easy way out without all of the pain so let her go
2007-04-16 07:22:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grant her request or else you would only lost her even more.Pray and ask GOD to reveal HIS WILL and PLANS between you and her.And give you a humble heart to understand and obey HIS WILL.If you were really meant to be,trust GOD that nothing can separate you!!!
2007-04-19 17:00:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up.. She is sick of dealing with you and wants something else. If you keep whining over this you will start to look like and idiot and one day she will get sick of it and kick your sorry butt.
2007-04-16 06:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt go 2 her now,mayb in a month or so ask her how she is feelin.keep conversation with her,stay an intent frend,remember her b-day & all other occations that include her.but dont annoy her.
2007-04-16 06:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Christen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋