ok i don't really even know this guy i met him in class in high skool so i like knew him for less then 1/2 a year and he likes me i don't mind going out with him its just that i have my heart set on a diff guy i don't just want to be like i don't like you i like some1 else cause i don't want to hurt this guys feelings so how do i let him down e~z???? oh and one more thing the other guy i have my heart set on i don't even know if he likes me back who would yallz go for????
2007-04-15 23:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to make a decision on WHAT YOU WANT.. Choose ONE guy!! then you act on it!
2007-04-15 23:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by AdultMALE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy who you don't have feelings for the truth and that you would rather be friends. This may hurt the guy, but break ups are natural for teenagers, and the guy has to live with the fact that he can only be friends with you. To the guy you like, just ask him out if he doesn't have a gf. If you're too shy, then try to ask the guy's friend to help you get him.
2007-04-16 06:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by John Doe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you dont do is you DONT wait until you know if the other guy likes you, then if he doesnt, you settle for the second best. Not a good start, will never work.
Stop proscrastinating over this and tell the guy who likes you that your flattered but you like someone else and you would like to stay mates.
GO to the guy u like and tell him youd like to go grab a coffee or movie sometime and see what he says, if he says yes, when you get there, see how it goes and ask him out! Be direct and simple, guys like that and its the only way they know.
I know what ur thinking - ur thinking - should I go out with the guy who likes me coz at least I know he will say yes. No you shouldnte. Life is not meant to be easy, you cant be with someone if you just sit on ur **** and think about them, be proactive and tell them, write to them, just do it!
2007-04-16 06:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy. First you need to be honest with this guy. I know you do not want to hurt his feeling but you will hurt him more if you keep letting him think he has a chance. Be nice but tell him that you are very flattered that he asked you and you do like him but as a friend only. Ask him to please be your friend. Tell him that you are about to let another guy know that you like him and you do have feeling for that guy. Tell him that you like him enough to tell him the truth now so he can move on.
Now about the guy you like, you need to tell him. You can write him a letter or tell him face to face. Tell him that another guy asked you out and you told him no because you just figured out you have feeling for him. Tell him that you just wanted to tell him how you feel and you are hoping he feels the same. tell him if he does not feel the same to please tell you now so you don't get stinged along.
See its simple......
2007-04-16 06:50:21 · answer #4 · answered by ABBY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you would like to see him as friends, but for now you are not ready to go with any one person.
2007-04-16 06:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not suggest a coffee?as friends.tell him you are not looking for anything more at the moment but you could be friends.at least you are upfront from the start.that way you can see if you like him without having led him on..
2007-04-16 06:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the guy who likes you. you will be happy.
2007-04-16 06:42:37 · answer #7 · answered by Kalu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to like like to like that he kind of sorta like you, but, like, you wouldn't like to like break his heart and stuff, so, you're like in a situation where you have to like choose the one you like. It's like... I like it!
(Did I use the word "like" more times than you?)
2007-04-16 06:43:31 · answer #8 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋