why women prefer oral than intercourse usually?

Question

i asked many many women and most or maybe allof them told me that they love recieving oral so much and prefer it than intercourse its self and they had more orgasms and better orgasms by oral and some told that it is the best forplay for them
also i was chatting with a woman lately and she told me "that there is no better thing in the life than to have the man she love bitween her legs it is romance ,love,sex"
but why women love it alot more than intercourse? what oral give to them?

Answer 1

Because generally the real thing doesn't stimulate the tickly bits as much as they would like, whereas oral stimulation will.

Answer 2

In most of my relationships, the path of least resistance seems to be oral stimulation first and then intercourse. It's easy and expected, especially with a new partner, to go with the oral first if only as part of the foreplay routine in order to prepare for intercourse. I always enjoyed giving oral sex and have always tended to make a big production out of it for the woman, especially after we've been doing it regularly together and have our signals and timing and special turn-ons figured out. It's kind of like what Dumpfinds said. When the woman has a good comfort level with the man, then oral sex gives the man a lot of control over the pacing and intensity of the woman's arousal, and that's a turn-on for the man too. As a result, a lot of my past partners often seemed to get their most intense orgasms during the oral sex and then used the following intercourse to finish off any leftover orgasms still lingering about. But sometimes the woman comes down after the oral sex, rests up a bit at the start of intercourse, and then builds up to a whole new string of even more powerful orgasms further along in the intercourse. So who knows. I'm just talking about averages anyway, and about my particular style with the particular partners I had in the past. When it comes to sex with my wife these days, she has loosened up quite a bit over the years and gets lots of powerful, noisy orgasms from just about anything. We also play around with vibrators, XXX movies, different positions, etc. We get creative. So in general I just try to watch for her signals, time things right, redouble my efforts if I see her building up for another wave of orgasms, and hang on for the ride. :-)

Answer 3

For many women oral sex id the best and when you think about from a woman point its concerned safe sex she is able to have orgasms without intercourse and she is not having sex that will cause her to become pregnant

Answer 4

I enjoy receiving oral sex. Who wouldn't? :) As far as women, I can't speak for "all" women, but most of us like to receive. It really does enhance our orgasms. I like sex too, as long as the man is trying. He doesn't have to go "a long time" or have a "big" one, but just as long as he's trying. Plus if a man doesn't go a long time it makes it better cuz we can do it more times. Instead of going 1 time for 20 min. and that's it, if he goes for 7 minutes and cums then we can go again for another 7 minutes later. And so on..and so on. I like sex and oral sex equally. I like giving oral too. I like building up to the oral sex and working my way downtown and pleasing a man. If 2 people are willing to give each other oral then no one feels left out.

Answer 5

Because some women have the clitoris covered by skin, or sometimes it is to small to receive the proper friction to become excited. I know because I have men that were in my life complain because I do not care to receive oral sex. I get excited enough just having sex. They thought that I didn't care for them. I don't really enjoy oral sex (for Me that is) very much. It makes me sore. I felt it necessary to discuss this with my friends and my doctor. This information comes from my research.

Answer 6

Not all women are this way.

But... why do men like blowjobs so much? Same deal. It's a purely selfish treat. You get to lie back and let your partner do all the work, while you reap the orgasmic benefits. Nothing wrong with that...

...so long as you return the favor to your partner, of course :)

Answer 7

It proven that 87% of women don't reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse but with oral that number declines thats why it feels GOOD!

Answer 8

Oral sex provides direct stimulation. It makes for a powerful orgasm and it feels sooooo good.

Answer 9

I love oral to get me really wet for sex. But I have to say that sex with my bf is awesome!

Answer 10

It is one of the best feelings in the world! That's why!