our daughters school director keeps calling CPS on us and the cops for dumb reasons, what can we do?

Question

in the last 6 months our daughters school director has called cps 1- was to report neglect charges, her comment was we dont floss their teeth often or at all and cps came out, unfounded and then they start telling my daughters that i must be a bad daddy and for my daughters to tell them i hit them or yell at them, my daughter comes home crying, i talked to them and they denied it, reported it to the council and nothing. then another time for neglect because we did not have girls ready in time for the bus for 2 days, i should mention that i have M.S. and R.A. and wife has C.P. so we do have some bad mornings. the director thinks disabled people should not have children(did not know about my M.S. till after they were born) and the other day a pipe broke in the base ment and flooded it and owner is and was out of town so had to pump it out and fix, what does the director do...call sherifs office for child endangerment anominosly..but we only told her after our daughter told her

Answer 1

It sounds as if this director has it out for you.... I would change schools. These are not reasons I would contact CPS about. I am a preschool teacher, and therefore a mandated child abuse reporter. Considering the disability that you have, along with the CP your wife has, I would expect some difficulty getting ready for the day. Of course, I work with children with special needs, so I have a different perspective than someone who has no idea what it is all about. It sounds as if this director is allowing her personal feelings about people with disabilities to affect how she envisions that your family life should be. Escape her disabling mental condition, and look for childcare elsewhere.

Answer 2

I would worry that CPS is coming out for not other reason then you do not floss your daughters teeth...

Does this director know that they can get in trouble for filing false charges against you and your family.. Its like calling 911 when there is nothing wrong. I would remind them of that..

I would also change schools, and let the school that your daughter is going to know why you are changing...

You should also not have to explain to ANYONE that you have a disability at all. That is none of there business..

Like the other have said I would get a lawyer and take things from there.

Answer 3

It's no fun being under CPSs microscope. You need to step back and try some critical thinking here. BY LAW, anyone who provides human services(teachers,medical people, EMS) MUST report ANY possibility of abuse or neglect. It's a liability issue. NOT reporting possible problems puts that person's a

Answer 4

Call a lawyer and have charges pressed for defimation of character. These people are portray you as a bad parent and CPS holds records on the fact that you have been reported for a long time. Other than that change the schools your daughters go to.

Answer 5

CPS may ought to go back out and look into. they are meant to bypass verify with the newborn at the same time as the newborn is way from any human being who may desire them to lean in a unmarried route or the different. no human being might want to locate you neglectful in besides structure or type. this can practice you a lesson from the following on out in spite of the truth that. Have the newborn waiting on the detailed %. up time. Have them dressed and able to bypass out the door. provide her no extra excuses. If she's stumbled on calling CPS for no reason and this grow to be stumbled on to be unwarranted, she'll lose her credibility. that can assist your husband benefit custody. you are able to not benefit custody of her in any respect. So attempt to stay out of the middle the perfect you are able to. you'll look ideal in a courtroom of regulation exhibiting that you furnish care, yet you're literally not believing you are able to benefit custody your self. trust me, it truly is an situation that she'll paintings to the finest of her capacity in a courtroom of regulation. fairness would not play out for this reason. The custody is in basic terms fought between her and your husband. Too commonly judges look on the hot spouse like they were the homestead wrecker, at the same time as it truly is infrequently the case. I applaud you for being a superb step mom, appears like a blast for the children to have a picnic contained in the residing room. I genuinely have quite a few, a lot youthful, cousins and that i did such issues for them at the same time as babysitting and they continuously loved it! That and making forts. If CPS stumbled on your position negligent simply by ingesting off the floor, then it would want to reason a situation. some workers are staggering and could paintings flat out to locate the truth and discredit those who make pretend accusations. some trust all are terrible human beings and damage children each and each of the time. so that you would possibly want to get both severe or someone in between. That your children were having an same dinner can help quite. warm dogs won't be able to be stumbled on to be flawed nutrition. Granted, it truly is no longer a healthful nutrition, despite the indisputable fact that it truly is nutrition all an same. it truly is a protein it quite is seen as a real nutrition it truly is no longer negligible in any experience.

Answer 6

My husband and youngest daughter are both disabled. My daughter has severe autism is non verbal and is not potty trained. I have recently began to home school her. Our middle child has learning disabilities. My husband has SEVERE Degenerative Disk Disease and so has a lot of mobility issues
and it is especially difficult for him in the early mornings. We have had three CPS investigations and two were called in by individuals at the kids school.

One of the shocking things that I found out was that here in Florida it is in the state statutes that the Principal of a childs school, wether it is public, private or charter, can look up the hot line records and can grant access to anyone with an educational interest in the child.

One thing I would suggest that you do is visit www.fightcps.com and tell them your story. Another thing I would do is make up cards for your child(ren) that basically state that he/she is exercising his/her right to have a parent present durring any questioning by CPS. FightCPS can assist you with this as can AFRA ( Family Rights Association). And yes, children DO have this right although CPS will not tell you this. Give your kids the cards to keep with them at all times and make sure that you instruct them NEVER to talk to anyone from CPS without you or their mother present.
Research the recording laws for wherever you live. If possible record each and every contact you have with ANYONE who says they are from CPS. Also, if there is anyone who you would trust with your life and who is willing you can make them your kids temporary guardian.You would not be giving them your children, it would basically mean that if CPS ever tries for removal they would have to give the kids to the guardian , not foster care. If you and your wife find yourselves headed for family court you should also print up a Declaration of Facts and have it filed at the courthouse. This can also be found on fightcps.

A few more things: 1 In the United States you DO have a constitutional right not to let them in the door of your home without a proper warrant. Really it is up to you but if you let them in they can look at a sink with a couple of dirty plates and write it up as a "sink full of dirty dishes and a filthy kitchen" Other people will tell you this is not so but in truth CPS is one of the most screwed up agencies I have ever heard of.

2. Homeschooling is legal in all fifty states. If you and/or your wife can manage it you can homeschool them. If you do decide to go this route I strongly urge you to join the Homeschool Legal Defense Association. Their fees are very reasonable- $115 for a year or you can go month to month.If your cases were all unfounded, as mine were, you should not have any trouble getting them to accept you as long as you do not have an active investigation going on.

Hope this has helped you out some. I have had a couple of really nasty investigators on our cases.

Answer 7

I don`t know - but the director voicing his opinion that disabled people shouldn`t have kids is definately grounds to sue - point that out.

Answer 8

i think you should be glad that they are watching the children at their school. some other children are not so fortunate to have someone care about what happens to them. it is frustrating yes, but let them do their job and find out for themselves that there is nothing abusive going on at your home. they will see the truth for themselves and then leave you alone. they will also get tired of the school calling them for stupid things eventually and they will put a stop to it. they have guidelines to follow and they have to check into every complaint.. which is a good thing, that means that they are doing their job. as long as there is nothing to hide.. i wouldnt worry about it..

Answer 9

you need to file harassment charges on this person to get them to stop

you also need to get a lawyer and have them file papers with the court showing that you do and can care for your children

Answer 10

Change schools and file charges against her for something.