Look inside yourself and get to know you. Learn that you are special, unique, intelligent, handsome, talented, capable...all that good stuff. You know it. The question you are asking is, how can you get others to recognize how great you are? Well, begin with recognizing your own greatness. If you can't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you? So love yourself, accept yourself as you are, without judgment. When you can truly accept yourself, others will naturally come to you. Others will recognize that you are comfortable with yourself. Most people aren't' and they gravitate to those who feel comfortable. And, others who feel comfortable with themselves will recognize a kindred spirit and they too will be attracted to you. So begin with yourself, learn to love yourself.
2007-04-15 20:54:18
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answered by judgebill 7
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Quite litaraly throw yourself in the social deep end. Do something that you would never dream of doing (like ask some random chicks out). The worst they could say is no and you have the great feeling of being able to confront chicks.
If your too shy to do that get some help from a girl buddy. After all noone knows a chick like a chick heh. But most of all just realise that the best thing that could happen way overweighs the worst. Even if you encounter the worst you can learn how to deal with it, learn from it and move on. Remember you only live once, so live it
2007-04-15 20:54:41
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answered by ChAtMaN 4
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Well think about it...do you want to be lonley forever or have lots of friends you can count on and connections for the future, even if your a shy person, you have to show the important people that you can overcome that.
2007-04-15 20:52:40
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answered by nanalynnminn 3
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go to a lesbin bar it will take the shyness right out of u a friend of mine took her shy friend who was a guy to one and now he is no longer shy lol true story and now he has a girl friend
2007-04-15 20:53:27
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answered by Anonymous
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Look in the mirror and practice what u would say to people and keep preacticing until you get some confidence in you.
2007-04-15 21:14:30
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answered by Anonymous
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Learn proper grammar.
2007-04-15 20:54:01
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answered by Peter G 2
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