ok i think its time to step it up a little bit with my gf. when we makeout we usually just kiss and maybe feel around a little bit with our hands. i want to take it to the next level but i dont want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. so im thinking next time we're making out and we get really into it i'll either go for the hand up the shirt or maybe down the pants but im afraid she'll freak out because she is a vigin. i wanted some suggestions on what i could do to make amove on her without scaring her.
2007-04-15 20:43:03 · 11 answers · asked by ez_3run 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do think she wants to go further but i dont really want to talk to her about it because i didnt think it would be as good of a first time if it was all planned out. also im not gonna try to push it on her and i dont mind waiting if thats what she wants
2007-04-15 21:03:53 · update #1
find out what she wants.
2007-04-15 20:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's still a virgin DON'T HAVE ***(you know) with her. If you do that, she'll sure be scared and regret it for the rest of her life because she's not married. Just let it be. Kissing and holding hands, never mind but not having***. She's still clean. What would people think about her if she's not a virgin anymore(if you're in my place, you having *** will be a hot topic to talk about). My advice to you is don't do it. Please..
2007-04-15 20:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by CuTe BaBy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont rip off her panties and stick it in her pooper. It may be a good way to not get her preggie but I doubt she would enjoy it. Yeah work into it slowly perhaps. if she gives you a red light discuss it with her later but most of all make her confortable about it and dont force it too much
2007-04-15 20:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go nice and steady. Talk to her about it to find out whether she is comfortable taking to the next level.If she is, good for u, mate! If not, then you should back off and cool off for a while.
2007-04-15 20:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask HER what HER boundaries are.
Don't scheme against her and try to figure out how to feel her up without her freaking out, just talk to her about what SHE wants.
2007-04-15 20:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by ChloeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a virgin you need to talk it out with her. Make sure she's ready. No surprises!!!!! The first time should be special.
2007-04-15 20:47:46 · answer #6 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she is ready to go to the next step. It is very nice that you consider her feelings, not all guys do.
2007-04-15 20:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by clbinmo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question do play it well with your gf. I am sure you will need to discuss it with her. If she's OK, you can help yourself to what you plan to do. If she's not OK, then you both talk it out ...
2007-04-15 20:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by stormymy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should respect her feelings and don't do those things which she disapprove. By the way why you want to do this , if you are so keen then marry her.
2007-04-15 20:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by maki" The time begins Now 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
breasts very gently and if thats ok then lips on them and if thats still ok then very very gently massage the groin outside the pants.
if thats still ok you can then be more gently aggressive.
2007-04-15 20:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋