Alright, so I think I have a problem. Any guy that I get interested in, I think I'm in love with. I can look into their eyes and fall in love so easily. So my question is, how will I know when the right one does come along? How will their eyes be any different? I'm moving, and I'm in a relationship at the moment, but there's a guy where I live right now that has amazing eyes! And when he looks at me, it's like he's looking deep into my soul.. but I've felt this way with other guys too. How will I know if this guy is greater then the guy I'm already with? They're both real special.. please help!! Oh yeah, and this guy says he doesn't want a relationship.. but why then does he look at me the way he does? I'm so confused!
2007-04-15 20:00:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
RELAX, seriously! nobody who sees you stress like that about how they are looking into your eyes wants a relationship. Guys only WANT a relationship when they feel safe and stressed out desperate needy clingy partners don't make you feel safe. You will know when it is right because he is going to be the one asking if this could be it and it wil feel 10,000 times better because you will also have the pride of knowing you didn't punk out Good luck and play safe
2007-04-15 20:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by mtcfog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Darling. Well first of all, looking into someones eyes doesn't tell if your in love or not. It's about how the person makes you feel. Anyone can having extremely wonderful eyes, and make you fall lost in love. In your case, especially, the man you are involved with may just be the one for you. The other guy; who is saying, 'i dont want a relationship' means, he doesn't want a relationship. It's not you, he's just enjoying life right now, the single way. Fate; Everything happens for a reason darling, go with the flow, and someday that ONE guy for you will come along, and you will know. Good Luck!
2007-04-15 20:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by Caitlin T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not in the eyes dear. That part should not even be considered until after you know the person is a sincere person, and they really care for you. Anyone can fake the eye thing. It is in how the person treats you. It is how well you are able to work out difficulties in life. It is how considerate you are of each other. It is whether or not you have similar goals and interests in life. It is when you are both so totally consumed in a conversation that you notice no one else.
Believe me it is hard to describe in words, but you will know when it is the right one.
You are just boy-crazy now. It is not abnormal at a young age to enjoy the attention of guys. Just don't base a lifetime committment on that kind of thing. It will be overwheming, when the right person comes along.
2007-04-15 20:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its great you let you feelings take a hold of you, you are a true romantic yet it might be the reason you get hurt alot. If this guy says he dosn't want a relationship i would move one, and fall in love with the next joe that comes along, you know you will. When you meet the "one" everything will go right (not perfect) but right. Until then learn from your mistakes, and use that knowledge to filter all the unwanted men and find the right one!
2007-04-15 20:08:33 · answer #4 · answered by Alana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you will know! I'm exactly like you I've fallen easily for guys that was til I met Hunter and he turned my whole world upside down, its like seeing the world for the first time its like the world has more beauty in it.You see more beauty in the most simplest things.You see that extra shine or glow in the stars, you feel that extra warmth from the sun yknw.... and its more then just the look in their eyes that tell you that he's the one but its when you stop looking that yknw its him! Its when no one else matters just him, and that he makes you feel beautiful in every way that a woman should feel and also when your heart can except no other but him. You just know hun, cause I know Ive found that someone special.
Its more then just a look, or that look in his eyes. Its when you feel this incredible feeling from every cnr of your heart,body,soul and mind is when you know.
So trust me hun you will know if you go thru all the above of what Ive just described. When you can trust him with your heart, and your everything..... You start noticing the good things within yourself and stuff.
Just trust me hun you will know if hes the one. B\c its when he's the only one in your eyes and no other guy comes close. Thats how I felt and still do with Hunter.I've stopped looking now b\c I dont need to look anymore.
Email me if you wnt to chat some more.
2007-04-15 20:47:59 · answer #5 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever considering that i used to be little and til at the present time I've constantly known as my mum "Mummy" and my dad "Daddy". Just on the grounds that they under no circumstances spoke back to "mum"/"dad". And it is constantly caught, I feel. Same with my siblings, too. I swear each time my mom calls me at paintings, and that i reply announcing "hello, mummy", I get probably the most strangest appears from my paintings colleagues. They constantly discover that hilarious and customarily take the mic. And I can surely see why it is humorous lol But, it is under no circumstances transformed, and I doubt it's going to. Mum and Dad will constantly be Mummy and Daddy. And often on the grounds that they may not reply to whatever else from their kids! : )
2016-09-05 14:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS THE "ONE"!!!!!
Get it out of your head if you ever want a serious relationship.
The "one" is a built up of hollywood movies and doesn't exist in real life.
The only thing you need to look for is if you two are compatible with each other and if you can see and accept his flaws and love him despite of them for many many many years.
The "one" is the one you end up sticking around with long enough to have survived everything life throws at you and the only way you know he's the "one" is if you can still manage to hold his hand and smile at him after 40 years of marriage and even then you never really know.
Looking for the "one" will only lead you into one relationship after another because you're still looking for perfection and anyone you have little problems with will seem like "not the one" and will cause you to break up with him.
And that fluttery feeling of being "so in love"... that's just infatuation or lust. Learn to differentiate and don't even think that you're in love until you get to know them past the "eyes".
**Happily married because I know WE chose each other NOT FATE.
2007-04-15 20:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by SammyK 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hehe.. believe me, I was like that when I was a teenager... I fell for cute smiles, cute eyes and puppy dog looks. Don't worry dearie, I used to ask myself the same question and you know what, I didn't even have to look for answers because I knew that my hubby was the one when we first met. Based on what you've said, you like both guys.. Like, as in, infatuated. they both have a trait that you are very much attracted to but in time, your feelings will fade and you'll be asking yourself why you felt the way you did for them. Although the smiles are always unforgetable, your gut will tell you when he's really "the one". And don't let looks confuse you, when you find the right man, nomatter what he may look like it won't matter because when you love somebody, you'll learn to be content nomatter what. That's how you'll know if he's the one, when he has so many flaws but in your eyes he's perfect...:)
2007-04-15 20:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right one? I came to realise after i have a 4 years long relationship now still with him i'm still in love with him. You can accept him totally and you don't mind to share his burdens physically or finacially. You can trust him and feel happy whenever you are with him. I used to be like you whoever i set my eyes on i think i love him but soon got bored and then changed my minds. If your current bf never do anything wrong then give him a chance to continue with you maybe he will be the one.
2007-04-15 20:11:57 · answer #9 · answered by phoebe83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r facing the same problem which I faced sometime back. What I understand from ur description is that U r going through mere crushes which is common for ppl of your age...
One thing I can suggest you from my experience is that you should try n control your feelings for them....Just become gr8 friends of them.....njoy with them n spend time with them. Let the feeling grow inside you....then one fine day I am sure you will pick the rite person. Its after knowing a persons bright n dark side that U'll understand who is the one. N dat U can only do by giving yourself time !!! All debest to U n hope U find ur Mr. Right soon....
Cheers !!!
2007-04-15 20:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Cool...n...sexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋