2007-04-15 19:56:06 · 12 answers · asked by holden_caulfield 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause you were pissed and shagging someone you don't know...
2007-04-15 19:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by neloid 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are worried that if this person you don't know is willing to have sex with a perfect stranger ,,,, then it could be going through your mind where he/she's been and with whom and with how many others ,,,,
There are all kinds of STD's and STI's out there ,,,, They have diseases and infections out there they don't even have names for yet let alone cures for any of them ,,,,
Maybe you are thinking of whether your health insurance is good enough and whether you'd want to be in and out of hospitals all the time and on medications the rest of your life ,,,,
There are all kinds of reasons why a one night stand would suck ,,,, You've obviously not thought about any of these things before you did this with this stranger ,,,,
2007-04-16 05:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONe night stands usually involve alcohol. Delete the booze though and the one night stand won't happen. So either way your not going to do to well on the one night stand. A partner will accept your limitations right away, cuz they already know your not going to live up to anticipation. Maybe you should talk them at least once.
2007-04-16 03:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's normally because when you decide in your mind that you are going to have a one night stand with someone it is because you were attracted to them and in the heat of the moment you slept together. You must have really liked something about that person and a part of you wants to know more about her/him and you can't quit thinking about them. The "what if" questions keep rolling through your mind.
If you already had a chance to know a person and then slept with them and you didn't feel anything more for them, your curiosity was satisfied. One night stands work backwards....You sleep with the person prior to getting to know all about them, if in fact you found something about them that you liked, your curiosity gots the best of you and you find yourself wanting that person more.
Does that make any sense?
2007-04-16 03:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Churryl K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I can't say because I've never had a one-nighter but you have no true feelings for this person. I love wild crazy sex but I love it with whomever I'm dating. It's the best feeling in the wold making the person you love most in the world feel so loved, so adored & so sexy. Give the best you have to someone you love, not some cheap trash that will remember you until thier next one-nighter. Or even worse.....ever see the movie "Fatal Attraction"?
2007-04-16 03:08:02 · answer #5 · answered by CrazyEddy06 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you don't feel the same thing for the person in the one night stand... and it is usually less comfortable... and there is no emotional connection... AND nine out of ten times you're probably too drunk to really enjoy it...
2007-04-16 02:59:13 · answer #6 · answered by emu_ba_ba_boo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already know there isn't going to be any emotional attachment with a one night stand. Its the bonding thing that makes it good.
2007-04-16 03:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by Im Listening 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well one-night-stands isn't for everyone, some feels guilty about it, feels that it has degraded them somehow, others feels that that was their best experience ever...
I guess it sucked in ur case huh?? then stick to what, &who u know
2007-04-16 03:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why only one night. I want to be with you all the nights.
2007-04-16 02:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That will teach you!! You have just learned a mature lesson in life. Sex is much more enjoyable with someone that you like and feel comfortable with. If you love them, it is even better!!!!
2007-04-16 03:03:06 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sex gets better with time, teh more you do it the better, so teh first time is always rough..
2007-04-16 02:58:46 · answer #11 · answered by J M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋