Oh, Sweetheart, I am so sorry to hear about your Mother. Mine died when I was 12 years old, and I have lived in that shadow ever since. Haven't even been to her grave, still haven't come to terms with it. God wasn't listening to me either and I had a hard time forgiving both of them. I have spent the last 25 years trying to come to terms with my (pointless, or so I thought) life, and my Mother's pointless death.
If I had known then what I know now, I would be a different person. Instead of grieving, I stuffed it all away; I was tough, I could take it, and so on and so on...My dear, you are worth the effort! Make mistakes and learn from them. Get yourself into a support group - there are so many! Don't stuff it away. All of that boxed-up emotion will go rancid on you and you deserve so much more! There are always grief counselors at hospitals; contact one and ask some questions. They will know of more support groups available to you.
I wish I knew how old you are!!!!
Don't give up, please. Your Mother would be very sad to hear you be so hard on yourself.
2007-04-15 19:29:53
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answered by Anonymous
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That depends on how you take it,
Do you want the good happy version.
Well god will hear you for sure just have patience and believe in him, I guess he’s a lil busy else where (places like Palestine, Uganda, Afghanistan etc) but as soon as he is free he will have his full attention on you. So please be hopeful and have trust and faith in him.. By the time GOD finishes his work else where you Think about what you want and are you putting in enough efforts to achieve it... PASSION is what sometimes solves the problem have a burning Passion about what you want in life and its all yours. See God needs helpers out there so he takes a few souls away from us... but it doesn’t mean those folks are not around us... sooner or later you will better and have gr8r life and will forget about all this.
The BAD and sad version.
You cant leave every thing to GOD.. Is he really the one who could really help you out, or is it all in your hands? the dude sitting up there in heaven is playing a game with all of us... he is constantly testing us and putting us in different conditions just to check how bad can we fall or fail. He does enjoy doing this... that’s why some times your bad times never tend to end. But then there are so many goons out there that gradually god will be bored of playing around with your life and eventually u will be no longer troubled by him. That’s where the good days start. If you think life like this is BAD think about how bad can he actually screw up your life...? In that contrast you would see life isn’t that bad after all so cheer up. IT COULD HAVE BEEN WORST!
My suggestion to you is SCREW asking GOD... if u want a better life stop begging for help. Get up and make things happen for you... Determination and efforts never go in vein.
2007-04-15 19:32:34
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answered by Vikram S 1
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God is always there and will always here you!!
Sometimes things happen to us in life that we just don't understand and don't think shouldn't happen to us, we are no supposed to ask why, but we all do from time to time. You need do find and read this book, THE PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE (What On Earth Am I Here For) by Rick Warren. I'm not a real religious person but my 6yr old son and I lost my husband a couple years ago and I thought it was the end of life for me until I read this book. Hang in there, what you are feeling is normal and God will understand! Good Luck
2007-04-16 11:25:39
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answered by sunny 1
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Wait a second....
Your mother passed away. Your mother can not take care of you anymore, but she is your mother and you are her daughter. That will remain true forever.
Does God hear you? I don't know. I am not a religeous person. What I can tell you is this. If you want your life to be better or change, you need to make it happen. If you want to be saved (from what?) you have to save yourself. All the power you need to make your life better/different/new is already within you. You just need to find it. You'll be amazed what you are capable of....
You sound depressed.... Perhaps you need to have a good talk with someone close to you.
2007-04-15 19:17:45
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answered by tkquestion 7
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God always hears you, we just don't always detect the answer. I can relate to your experience but I know without a doubt that God is there even if you have faced hurdles and crossroads recently and had tough times. I think that we all have to patient and trust in God through faith. He won't flip the light on and off to prove himself, but he'll comfort you in ways that are beyond imagination in his way on his terms.
I know someone else's hard times don't make yours easier but seeing as how you mentioned your mom, I've got a link below about a really special father with a disabled son with multiple sclerosis, and he races triathalons with his boy. I just think the love of this guy gives us all hope that world isn't so bad...Take care.
2007-04-15 19:10:51
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answered by Anonymous
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i'm sorry to hear about your mom. god does hear you. sometimes u can't expect him to fix everything. it sounds like your really upset. and haven't moved on since her passing. but he does hear u. just hasn't found the right time to tell u that he feels what your going through. u should never give up hope because when everything else fades away, hope is all u got left. u will find your strength somewhere, i can't tell u when but u will. i know i make it sound so easy but i know from experience, that it never is. try being the person people won't forget and i gaurentee u will see will a change.
2007-04-15 19:15:00
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answered by gitch 2
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a million hell isn't a warm, burning, fiery place of everlasting torment for sinners. it incredibly is basically the grave of all mankind. Revelation 20:14; 21:8 Romans 6:23; Genesis 3:19 Ezekiel 18:4 #2 Acts 24:15 explains a resurrection of the righteous and unrighteousness. someone who dies without ever gaining wisdom of the reality approximately Jehovah God and the ransom sacrifice of his son, Jesus Christ ought to extra-than-in all danger be resurrected. it would not be a 2nd danger, yet surely a typical danger. From one in all Jehovah's Witnesses digital mail me in case you wish further explanation from the bible.
2016-10-22 07:09:23
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answered by ? 4
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Christ said to the thief on the cross, "today you will be with me in paradise." If a thief can go to heaven... All things are possible with God!
"And we are confident that he hears us whenever we ask for anything that pleases him." - 1 John 5:14
"Are not five sparrows sold for two pennies? Yet not one of them is forgotten by God. Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows.
"I tell you, whoever acknowledges me before men, the Son of Man will also acknowledge him before the angels of God." - Luke 12:6-8
2007-04-15 19:16:59
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answered by cydhope 1
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First of all when you get the chance, take 2 tbls. heinz apple cider vinegar in a glass of water 2-3 x day. You are just depressed. Vinegar will take that depression away and give you more energy.
Take a bible and read the proverb section. You have to be quiet and still to hear God. Just 10 minutes a day of your time and you will be rewarded with a new life.
2007-04-15 19:09:05
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answered by glenda576 4
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Jesus loves you.And your Mom would not have you feeling this way for nothing, Only Satan would have you fill this way. A positive attitude is a magnet for positive results.Read your Bible each day for peace of mind and reassurance, Some sweet day you will see your mother again.I lost my mom when I was 6 years old and I have missed Her for so long but what keeps me going is to stay as close to Jesus as I can so I will be sure to see her again.My Mom is better off than I am not having to suffer this old world and its trials and tribulations..We are not who we where yesterday, We are who we make our self's today..And Jesus hears you,Trust me and I no that it is hard to believe but their is so many worse off than us so we have to be patient because he is always own time with what we need and want...Gods speed I pray for you..Lord shine your warm light own this child of yours and fill Her spirit with Hope and Love and compassion...God bless you and I am praying for you..Jesus loves you and don't you forget it...
2007-04-16 04:32:16
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answered by Anonymous
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